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 I expect my day is full of unexpectation and unknowns, the rest is for my imagination.

Dieu ta nhin thay va dieu thuc su xay ra: Khi chung ta nghe thay moi nguoi ca ngoi ve ai do, hay ca ngoi ve ban than hoac su viec gi do that tuyet voi va dep de thi chung ta se co hieu biet gi ? Khong phai ta se co them hieu biet la ai do, nguoi do hoac su viec do that tuyet voi va dep de, ma chung ta hieu rang nguoi noi dang yeu ai do, ban than minh hoac su viec do. Khi yeu thi moi thu deu tro nen tuyet voi va dep de. Khi yeu nguoi ta chi nhin thay nhung cai tot cai dep, cai tuyet voi, hoac yeu tat ca moi thu ve dieu do nen ho se noi voi dieu do voi mot cach khac. Nen nguoi ta noi tinh yeu luc dau toan mau hong la the. Nguoi ta se luon nhin vao nhung thu tot dep tich cuc. Con moi con nguoi, su vat, hien tuong deu co 2 mat, tot va xau, nhu am voi duong. Khi ta yeu cuoc song thi ta thay moi su viec deu co y nghia va su tot dep cua no.

Nhung thay ta nhin thay chi la bieu hien nhin thay duoc cua nhung dieu khong nhin thay duoc. Vi the no co the ko dung theo cach ta nhan thuc truc tiep hoac su danh gia cua ta la khong toan dien. Vi du, ta thay trai tao roi, cac vat tha ra deu roi xuong nhung ta khong nhin thay duoc khong gian, thoi gian bi uon cong. Nhung con nguoi, su vat, hien tuong ta nhin thay khong phai la nhung thu ap dat len ta ma no chi la bieu hien ben ngoai cua cai the gioi ta tao ra va lua chon.

Loi noi: chung ta duoc cho loi noi de su dung theo 2 cach: 1 la noi ra nhu mot ong hoang, 2 la noi ra de bien nguoi khac thanh ba hoang. Cach thu nhat la noi de nguoi khac phai nghe theo, phai ne so, phai kinh phuc. Cach thu hai la noi ra de nguoi khac cam thay duoc tran trong, yeu thuong, duoc yeu chieu.

"I don't hope, I just try" => what does that means? That means "I don't care what is your reaction, I give you a chance, if your response is not good, I give the chance for someone else".

"What are you expecting is not important because the reality can always be different form your expectation. But what you will feel is important because you already decided to feel that way".
3. Moi thu deu co the la su thatMoi su that ta deu co the tao ra