Why do I like football

Why do I like playing soccer? Team work. At one point you will figure out that it is a team game. You will win by a team and lose by a team. Opponent can loose to you by individual but can beat you by team work. And that each people will have a role to do there to score and once scored it is everyone's victory. Same in life, you will figure out it is too much to do everything by yourself. You can't be the striker, the defender and the keeper at the same time. You need people to defense when you attack, you need somebody to score when you defense and make the ball, and the team need a good keeper when they concentrate on their works. If everyone is concentrate and support each other well they can lift each other and the whole team. If there is a single position doing poorly, it will be the killing point for the whole team. And your teammate keep you up for work out everyday, they keep you up for working hard, training hard.  And you need to find a position that you can do well for that team. You gotta find out where the team is weak and where your capabilities can be used. It can be same positions for several teams or it can be different positions depends on the game. It is the teammates that give you fun enjoy doing the work. It is the teammates that compliment your skills. It is the teammates that make you more daring. It is the teammates that understand you and stand by you.  It is the teammates that help you recognizes all the fun and stuffs. It is the teammates that teach you the new skills. It is the teammates that make you want to be better. It is the teammates that give you the opportunities. It is the teammates that make you want to sacrifice.  It is the teamwork that you will sweat, tear and blood together. It is the teamwork that fight. It is the teamwork that you will loose or win. It's a game. So basically everything in life will be a loose or win against something. If you are doing business, there will be someone, something trying to beat you, trying to win over you and vice versa. Gather some people to do it together. Don't worry about one single game. You will loose some single times and win some. But it is not the only game you have but many. So enjoy it, learn it.  At the start may be you just learn to win over your self first. You need to learn to adjust your body, your movement. Then your thinking, your tactics and especially your emotions. You will keep learning it from time to time and until further later, you still have to learn it. Sometimes you can see your limitations by yourself. Sometime, it is from others or from outside you will learn it. Expectation. Take responsibility. Not blaming others. Lonely wolf. The smart player Most of the time in game you will not have the ball. So the smart player is not only about what he do when he has the ball but mostly what he do when he is off the ball.  You need to move and think continuously. You need to think everything in advance. Like a smart chess player, it is about how deep or how many steps ahead you can think of. You need to know what gonna happened next and what to expect. Life is like a game, you will fall if you expected wrongly. Don't stay passively and being lazy, be always prepared move and know where is the goal, how to get there. Know where is the weakness, what is happening. Encourage your teammates and yourself. Forget and forgive a single mistake and learn how to do better fast. Try to keep your head cool. Connection The smart player also the one who help to connect the team, help to link up the passes, the space, the situation. You can never get to the goal if lack of connection between players. It need a smooth connection from the start to the goal which is your final destination. You can have very strong area, strong player some where, but if these got separated from the rest, you won't make the result. You no need a player that over run, over play everybody, but you need players that can play and support equally, divide the space, the work, the rhythm sufficiently so they can link up together and make the way to your goal.  Same in life. You can do very well one day, you can do a lot one time but if you cannot connect it from day to day, can't make it continuously, you have very slim chance to get to your goal. So pay attention to divide the work and your effort wisely to connect them together over the time space. You need connection continuously to get to your goal.  The lesson from Tet New Year. Visiting my family during Tet holiday, I have chance to play table tennis with my mother. She only learned to play for short time, from my father, but she really surprised me by her aligaty, tactic and skill. She never look so serious but react to her strike is not always easy. From there I really find out a new look to my mom. It's like I discover a new person in her. So I could understand how my mom can do and archive what she can do in life and how is her archivement if she has chance to expose all her ability. And I recognize how sport can really help us to see a real person in a person. In soccer, I not get used to talk about my self, especially when people flatering about my skill. But this time I have to be honest to my self to judge me. I seems to belongs to the smartest guys on the field. Everytime I play or train, the opponent team offten give their two best players to mark me. But only if they don't put their eyes on me for one second, I can find a chance and with one single touch I will score! Not only be able to read the game, I also have some abilities to control it to a certain level. There is a match that my team is lead 2-0 until the later part of the game and it looks like all the chances is still in the opponent's hands, I was the subtitute and from the moment I come in, we reverse the situation, totally attach like we are leading and we scored 2 goals continuously to get a draw. If the match could last any longer, we really have chance to win them back. Now, about my limitation, it is my ability to control my self. In football, it is about how you can control your body, your legs, your running, your movement with the ball. It is your skill. After several years not touching the ball and practicing everyday, I loose the smooth skills, and every match I have to warm up for long as well as prepare for it a week in advance. But you still need to practice everyday, and have to get better everyday, and do it for years, to have it as your skills! And I know that currently I do not have it, or in short, I am not in control very well. I know it is true for my life also! I could know what to do, what should be done and can find a good plan, good idea. But I am not in good control over my schedule, my decision on what to do and execute. In short, i have to control my mind and my body better! Not be able to control the ball very well is very, very common in amateur football. You can find most of the players are not able to control it very well. And most of them also not playing smart. Few players can control it well and play smarter.  We can see how sport can help to reveal your real personality. Look at sport you see life. If you want to learn what characteristics make someone so successful, you may ask him to play sport.I know I will have very slim chance to play soccer with a rich player. But rich people do play golf and I may have more chance to play golf with this class. I used to think (and still thinking) that golf is a boring sport. Donald Trumph thought so too. But now he finds it is a great sport. There must be a reason for it. And I think I must play it too. Ask your team mates. One of my common practice during the break is to ask my players what we need to improve for the 2nd half. It could give you feedback from "sensors" at different positions on the fields. One time, a mid-fielder, he plays with me at the center, tells me before the game : he wants me to align with him during the game wherever he goes. I agree and we keep playing like that during the game. Surprisingly that game we really control the match really well. Beside having a good striker that day, we also own the midfield area by ourself, it improves our performance significantly. Compare to the match a week earlier to the same opponent, we really play 4-5 times better! I can't deny that the mid-fielder's idea contribute a lot to this improvement. And I think about it a lot ! I question my self how could I never recognize this point ? For some reasons I really do not see this point for a long time. During a game, I often move a lot in a wide range area.  When I stay outside I could recognize several points that we need to improve. However, for a long time I do not see this point, but why my team mate can see this important point? Am I too blur to recognize it ?  I keep thinking about that. My team mate is certainly a smart guy. But this is not something requires you to be very intelligent to find it. And I find out a different thing. In a match, me often move too much, while he not often move that much. And when he not moving so much, he may see where he need the support. So you do not think that by only hardworking you can see every aspects of your organization. Respect all inputs from all of your team mates. All of them are very valuable! Responsibility It is important that you need to have responsibility with your team. It is both when you are on or off the pitch. Playing it is not just passing the ball and you are done of your job. Not that you can walk or just stand by to see your team mates playing then. You need to take responsible of the ball you passing to your friend in a good situation, make sure he can deal with it easily, he can quickly have an option to process with the ball or in a very good situation and timing. So you need to make your self available for the return ball or help your player to get back the ball quickly if he lost the ball. If you are playing responsibility, you want let your self lazy walking when other members are running, you will actively involve in every situation. That is the opposite of having responsibility or not. It is similar spirit that you will need in every organisations, the members could do this or that differently, that doesn't matter as long as she or he take the responsibility for archiving the common goal. Then no matter if she or he is doing or if they could be there or not, they will always find the way to ensure that everything is on track to get to that goal. Nobility In football, players have tricks, have tempers, have bad reactions... All of that is the natural characteristics of a game. But it is how quick will you get out of that situation and with what spirit will you bring is the thing that define how will you result in the game. It is really hard to have your brain think clear when your boiled with running, tackling and even your mind is driving crazy by opponents tricks and bad results. That is extremely difficult to always think right and actually it could be most difficult to deal with your self, how to make you think straight. Sometimes, I actually will give the hand shake to the man who just intentionally giving a dangerous tackle to me. It might bring surprise to the opponent. It might help him to avoid repeating that again. Or it might be that he doesn't care to give back a hand shake to you. But the important thing is that it will keep you cool, it help you to think right and it will be the determination for the fate of the rest of the game. Similarly in life or business, there are plenty of times where you feel you can not really stand a person any longer. How in hell that he or she keeps making you crazy. You just want to play him back, give her back what she gave, put them in the situation they deserved to. Believe or not, it will not make the situation any better but even worse. The wise thing to do is to really think of how good is this person actually be. You will find it or you just need to recall what are the good things about him or her. Same in love, if you cant get along well, accept the fact that you are just cant agree on something or cant get together. But it doesn't mean that your partner will have no value. She or he will be really good for someone else. Accept that they are actually will be very good in another setup. Be nobility, it will not only make you feel really good but actually the best solution that brings all the best thing for you. Distraction. If you keep the ball and try to dribble, no matter how good you are, you can pass 1, 2, 3 or few more players. You can score goals. But after few times, your opponent start to learn that and they will easily find a way to block you. Even the best player of all time like Messi also become no use sometimes when the opposite site learnt this. I recognised the players from other team we used to play against can learn it very fast. They start to know how I gonna move, when my team mates gonna pass the ball to me. If I can pass one or two players the other players start to be able to predict where me and the ball gonna go and they can be there waiting and block me or get the ball easily. They will eventually cause tremendous amount of difficulties for me. That is why I also have to adapt and learn from it. I have to pass the ball really quick, moving a lot and actively find new space to be there. Most importantly use all other team members ability and let them show their strength. It makes the opponent very hard to know where is the real target and they can't cause much trouble any more. So Argentina team in Messi's time has used totally wrong tactic, they obviously and sincerely put Messi to be the target for the opponent, the rest of the jobs is too easy for any team to do. Similarly in life. But life plays the smart side, it continuously give many distractions to you, makes you difficult to focus on the same target for long enough time. That is why so many people failed to get any significant achievement, only ones who could focus on one single target, then it becomes easy for him to find the solution and deal with it. Attitude Life can be always unexpectable just like football. You think you know the law, you think you understand the people, but the always can act under their expectation. There is nothing you can do about it. So you no need to be upset about what you can't control. But you can control your self. The single thing that is under your control is your attitude and the first important thing to control is also your attitude. In life there are so many things you don't like to do. Many things you think you get difficulty to deal with but you still have to do. Many things are not as you want. I agree and sometimes nothing you can do about it. But the one thing you can do and should do is to keep good attitude. Good attitude will attract good things, chances and solutions.  If some one treat you well you show good attitude with them, that is normal. But if they are harsh with you, come to you with bad intention but you still could understand why they do it, stay out of it, keep your head up and and show fair gesture and thinking, that is good attitude. Talk about Messi and talk about attitude in football, there is one special thing that cannot forget to mention: if you look carefully at the way Messi dribble, you can find one secret that makes him be able to pass so many players. It is the way he keep the ball, push the ball, his gestures, etc. all showing an fair, easy attitude. Different from other players, when they push the ball , their body shape and gesture show a high potential threaten to the opposite side cause them to be fully awareness. They will give tackles. With Messi, he keep his body up straight, he push the ball small steps near his body, he goes and rest in ease, he turns, he passes the ball early and in peace. He never shows much threaten to the opponent. That is another aspect of the playing attitude of the greatest player of this sport. Trap After talking about attitude, it is good time to talk about how to keep good attitude. In football, you can easy to loose temper as when you run, your body is heating up. In bad situation, with few tackles and or provocations, the opponents can easily make you angry and you will fall into their trap. Because they know whey you lost your temper you will make mistake.  So one of the most difficult thing in football is to keep cool in every situation all the way through out the match so you can think right, and you can act right! Similarly, in life there are plenty of "traps" that you could fall into and you will make mistake, you will loose the good attitude leading to bad decisions. Angry, fear, pride, envy, lust etc. are all traps So you need recognise to avoid the traps to keep good thinking, good attitude. Keep the ball moving  There are many benefits to keep simple passing around the players: players having more touch, their sense of touching and passing are better, they will control the ball more accurate, their confidence will raise. Further more, when the ball keep moving around players, you can create space, the chance will come. Some times you don't really can see the way to the goal, but by passing the ball you can find the way in. Similarly in life, sometimes you cannot sit there and think and find out the whole solution or idea for your goal. Sometimes you just don't know what to do, how to do to archive it. So the thing to do is just do any simple thing you can do well. Keep working, just working and you will see the way.  Do not get stuck in front of an obstacle whether it is an situation, an emotion or spirit. Move to another step which is simple and you can do well. Prediction To keep passing well you need to prepare to pass before you receive the ball. Know who to pass to and predict where the ball will come to you, put your self in good position. The good player is always the player could make a good prediction and prepare for it. Same in life, you need to predict what will be the results and prepare what to do next, how to react. That is the good player in life. Uncertainty If you can predict everything in football precisely then there is nothing fun about this sport anymore. The interesting here is there is always unpredictable events and everything could happen.  Some players you feel that they perform very poor but they suddenly become very smart when playing for your opponent side. Some players when they play against you very well but when they come to play with you they turn to be worse loose their quality... Yes, there is no body wrong, only you are wrong when you judge. In quantum physics, there is an unusual phenomenal or characteristic: the result of the experiment is effected by the observer. You can feel something similar here, when you apply your own judgement or try to predict something, it often go another way. So extend this to life, life is always try to make itself interesting by making it unpredictable or making you wrong with your judgement. To cope with it you need to not judging anything, anyone, accept it the way it is and understand it as a normal flow of laws.  In the mean time, you also still can feel (which is another term of prediction) the way some thing would happen if you can put your self in other's shoes. "Feel" means to vibrate similarly, to make resonation, and then things will happen the same way you can feel.  In quantum physics, two particles can immediately copy each other from distance, they call it entanglement phenomenon.  Dieu quan trong nhat Da bong bao nhieu nam. Lam qua bao nhieu viec lien quan den bong da. Bay gio moi hieu dieu quan trong nhat chinh la thai do. Moi dieu duc ket lai 2 tu rat suc tich la thai do cua ban nhu the nao. Trong cac tinh huong thi thai doi ra sao: thai do tren san, thai do trong cac tinh huong, thai do khi moi viec ko dien ra dung y, thai do voi doi thu, thai do voi dong do, thai do khi chuan bi, thai do khi luyen tap, thai do ve ket qua, thai do ve ket qua mong muon. Thai do ve trach nhiem. Du la mot cau thu duoc ton trong va danh gia cao, duoc nhieu nguoi biet den nhung ko bao gio dam noi minh la gioi nhat. Van nhin thay rat nhieu cau thu gioi hon minh, ky thuat tot hon minh, thay moi nguoi co nhung diem manh yeu khac nhau va cach su dung ho nhu the nao trong tap the doi bong moi la dieu quan trong. Chi thay phai dat cho minh trach nhiem cao nhat. Luon tu nhan trach nhiem cao nhat. Vi vay, cau thu quan trong nhat hay con nguoi, nhan to quan trong nhat trong tap the la nguoi tu nhan trach nhiem cao nhat ve minh. Giong nhu hoc sinh gioi nhat la nguoi luon tu thay cac bai toan kho nhat, cac van de hoc bua nhat phai duoc giai quyet boi minh va minh co trach nhiem giai quyet chung. Thai do cuoc song, bat dau mot ngay moi, thay vui ve va mong ngong nhu thai do phan chan trong lop hoc khi nghi den ngay hom nay se co tran bong sau khi tan hoc. Thai do chuan bi tot nhu thuong xuyen luyen tap de co phong do tot nhat. Thai do trach nhiem: chuan bi du cau thu tot cho tran dau, chuan bi do cho ae, lo lang gio giac de moi nguoi co mat day du va dung gio nhat, co du bong de tap luyen va co phong do tot nhat, co su hieu biet va ho tro lan nhau tot nhat, co the xem lai va chia se hinh anh cua minh. Trach nhiem khi thi dau tren sau, ban bong phai co trach nhiem nguoi do do duoc qua bong va co phuong an de xoay so, trach nhiem di chuyen de nhan bong trong khong gian phu hop, di chuyen de ket noi cac vi tri. Trach nhiem ghi ban hoac kien thiet ghi ban. Trach nhiem quay ve san de phong ngu hoac ho tro phong ngu. Chiu trach nhiem ko dong nghia voi viec om dom lam lay het moi viec ma la co suy nghi va tinh toan, lo toan co du tru va ke hoach cho moi viec duoc dien ra thuan loi va co ket qua tot. Chiu trach nhiem cao nhat voi mot thai do song dung dan se tao ra con nguoi thanh cong. Phai luon huong ve cai thien va nhung dieu tot dep.Trong cuoc song co day nhung tam guong va nhung nguoi rat tot dep va co the hoc  hoi mai ko het, ko can phai sang tac hay tim kiem qua xa voi. Bai hoc bong da so 6

1. Moi nguoi trong doi bong deu va chi co mot vai tro nhat dinh. Viec ho van hanh the nao voi nhung phan con lai moi la quan trong nhat. Moi ca nhan khong the va khong nen lam yeu to de ban phai ban tam qua nhieu. Neu ca nhan do yeu thi viec cua ban ko phai la that vong hay phe binh ho ma la tim cach de support ho va nhung cho yeu tuong tu nhu the. Neu ca nhan do manh cung lam sao de support de ho phat huy duoc kha nang.Mot nguoi trong cong ty, du la sep cua ban thi cung chi la mot phan cua ca mot co may. Ban phai nhin thay muc tieu cua ca tap the la huong den dau va ban phai van hanh the nao voi nhung phan con lai de dat duoc muc tieu day nhanh nhat.2. Neu ban dang perform ko tot thi khi co nguoi moi den dung bat ho phai thi dau theo cach cua minh. Khi tap the cua ban dang van hanh khong that tot, nang luong, tinh than va nhip do cua moi nguoi deu dang khong that tot. Co mot nguoi moi den ho co the mang moi cach van hanh moi me vao ca bo may, can tan dung duoc dieu do va hoa duoc voi nhip cua ho, co the mang den mot net tuoi moi cho ca tap the. Dung bien ho hoa vao cai nhip do cham chap, rac roi va thieu tinh tao cua cac ban.3. Neu chua chien dau het minh, doc suc, tham chi la noi khung, don toan tam toan luc thuc hien mot muc dich thi chua the ngam ra duoc chan ly. Neu ban cu chien dau deu deu voi nhip do hien thoi va khong thay mot ket qua hay dot bien nao hieu qua. Do la luc ban can no luc nhieu hon nua, tham chi no luc bang toan bo nang luong va tham chi ca su noi gian cua minh de dat duoc dieu minh muon. Khi ban chua doc toan suc luc de ket noi nhung mat xich cho co may chay duoc tron tru, co the ban se mai ko bao gio nhin ra dieu gi moi. Neu ban co gang het suc, bang mot tinh than lac quan, co hoi bat ngo se den.4. Dua nao dang da khong tot ma cu nhac ban phai da the nay da the kia, do la dau hieu no dang ranh hang qua. Can tao them cong an viec lam cho no. Co nhieu nguoi nhu vay, va day cung la dieu binh thuong, khi ho dang gap van de thuong la do ho ko tu nhin thay duoc van de cua minh ma lai nhin thay van de o nguoi khac, day chinh la ly do ho co van de. Nguoi dang co phong do tot thi ho phai danh thoi gian de co gang lam viec, tham chi no luc ho tro va dong vien nguoi khac de ca tap the, trong do co ho co the hoat dong tot hon.Moi tran bong, phong do, con nguoi, su kien se goi gon trong khong gian luc do, dung mang theo no ca ngay va mang ra ngoai vao ca cuoc song. Vi the dung gan nhung va cham, xich mich vao moi quan he ca nhan. No chi la va cham trong tuong tac cac tinh huong. Sau do tat ca lai tro ve cuoc song. Ngay hom sau lai la ngay moi, tat ca lai cung co gang trong mot tran dau moi. 5. Cach thoat khoi ap luc la gay ap luc nguoc tro lai. Bien minh tu the bi dong sang the chu dong.Khi ban lien tuc bi ap luc chung to ban dang bi day vao tinh the bi dong. Nhung ko ai bat ban phai dung nguyen o do ca. Ban se dao nguoc duoc ngay tinh the khi tro len chu dong. Cha han ban dang thuong bi cuop bong thi khi ban lao vao cuop bong thi doi thu se phai chay xa khoi ban. Ke nao cang hay nham nhe cuop bong cua ban thi bat cu khi nao no co bong hay lao vao cuop bong that quyet liet.5b. Khi doi thu co bong hoac chay di nhan bong co the lai chinh la dang mo ra co hoi tuong lai cho ban. Ho dang tao ra khoang trong cho ban, ho dang khong quan tam den ban. Vi the khi nhin thay nguoi khac co phan va minh dang ko co ai quan tam co the lai chinh la dang co nhung co hoi tot, phai chuan bi cho no.6. Khong so ke dich manh nhu ho chi so dong doi ngu nhu bo la co thatDoi minh dang rat manh, nhung khong the danh bai duoc doi thu chi gom nhung lao trung nien va mot vai thanh nien khong qua xuat sac. Don gian vi ho dang tu danh mat di nhip dieu va giao tiep nhip nhang cua ca doi. Dang rat be tac, duong nhu khong no luc nao dem lai hieu qua. Phat hien ra doi ban co mot cau thu minh hieu kha ro tinh cach, rat quyet liet khi phong thu nhung kha vung ve trong nhung duong chuyen. Khi minh den gan cung khong de cuop duoc bong cua cau ta. Nhung minh co the tao duoc ap luc. Cau ta ngang len tim dong doi. Minh ho to : "ban bong dai !" dong thoi lao vao cuop bong. Cau ta vung chan ban dai` that. Bong bay khong dia chi, tim ra ngoai duong bien. Dong doi o tren lau bau chui. Minh den gan dong vien "khong sao dau, phai thu chu !"   Cau ta khoai chi cuoi ha ha? ...Bao: "cam on may !" roi quay lai nhan nho cuoi voi dong doi "Thomas says it's ok, have to try "  Roi lai quay lai cuoi cam on minh. Bong lai tim den chan cua hau ve nay. Minh lai lao vao tao ap luc va lai ho "chuyen dai lai di", loi dong vien nay lam anh chang boi roi, luong lu giua chuyen bong va de bong, lung tung lam minh cuop duoc bong. Minh cuop bong roi van suon don gian khi anh nay duoi theo bi mat da, ban cho dong doi o tu the trong trai va nhanh chong tim duoc ban thang. Tieng chui boi cua doi thu sau khi chiu qua thua lang nhach vang khap san. Tran dau ket thuc. Cac tien dao cua doi thu o phia tren con vua di ra vua buc doc chui "fucking non-sense, idiot, stupid... F*..F*, blah..blah.."  =)))Nhieu khi cach dai bai doi thu khong phai bang viec minh co the tro len manh hon ma bang viec khai thac duoc diem yeu cua doi thu :D Dao (Zen)Khi hieu duoc dao thi co the suy ra va ap dung trong moi thu. No nhu la nhung noi ham chung cua tat ca moi vat. Khi hieu duoc dao thi chac chan se lam tot, du ban dang o trinh do nao. Vi du da bong, khi hieu duoc cai dao cua no, cai triet ly cua no, thi du ban la nguoi moi hoc choi, hay da biet choi, hay la nguoi choi lau nam, thi chac chan ban se nhan duoc danh gia tich cuc tu nguoi choi cung ban. Tiet che (dieu tiet)Tiet che o day khong phai hieu theo nghia cua su kim nen ma tiet che hieu theo nghia cua nghe thuat cua su vua du. Vi du khi da bong, ban duong bong voi luc the nao la vua du, khong qua manh, khong qua nhe. Trai bong di the nao vua dung tam di chuyen cua nguoi nhan. Chuyen dung vao chan ma nguoi nhan san sang de don lay trai bong, dung vao thoi diem ma nguoi ta san sang nhat de nhan bong, dung vao khoang cach ma nguoi ta thuan loi nhat de xu ly qua bong. Day la mot nghe thuat. Vua du (just nice) la ca mot nghe thuat trong da bong. So lan cham bong tung nao la vua du khi dang cam bong, co khi nguoi ta co bong den chan ma tham chi ko cham vao ma di chuyen quanh no, thay doi vi tri xung quanh no cung co the xoay cuc duoc ca the tran. Di chuyen the nao khi ko co bong ? Do cung la ca mot nghe thuat, khong qua nhanh, khong qua cham, vua phu hop voi bo cuc cua tinh huong tran dau. Mot cau thu co su tiet che tot, tuc la biet dieu tiet tran dau tot se la nguoi lam chu tran dau, xoay cuc duoc tran dau. Nang luong cung vay. Cau thu gioi thi biet dieu chinh va su dung nang luong hop ly truoc, trong va sau tran dau. Truoc tran dau thi phai biet tiet che trong cac hoat dong de chuan bi nang luong cho tran dau. Trong tran dau thi phai biet dieu tiet de luon giu duoc su tinh tao trong suy nghi va xu ly tinh huong, de luon du suc de don vao nhung tinh huong quan trong. Va de van con du suc de sau tran dau van hoan toan lam duoc cac hoat dong khac mot cach binh thuong. Vi suy cho cung, mot tran dau cung nhu moi hoat dong khac, cung chi la mot game, no ko phai ca cuoc doi. Sau do ta van con nhung su lua chon khac, nhung dieu tuyet voi khac.Su tiet che khi da la nghe thuat thi khong chi o nang luong ma ca o cam xuc. Tu vui, den buon, hay thich thu hoac lo lang hay ca so hai; tat ca phai biet tiet che de no chi vua du, khong nhieu qua vi no la khong can thiet, co the gay ra su mat can bang hoac lam anh huong den nhung thu khac.Cha han, yeu qua la khong tot. Vi yeu qua dan den luy, tu luy dan den mat can bang. Nguoi ta tuong cai minh yeu la thu duy nhat, la khong the thay the. Nhung ban chat cua moi vat la vo cung, muon hinh muon ve, luon thay doi va co the bien doi tu cai nay sang cai khac. Tuc la khong phai co mot thu duy nhat co the lam minh yeu ma co nhieu thu co the lam minh yeu. Khong phai co mot kieu duy nhat co the phu hop voi minh ma co nhieu kieu khac nhau co the phu hop voi minh. Khong phai cai minh yeu la khong bao gio thay doi ma co khi no lam minh dau, hoac lam minh khong con yeu nua hoac ko yeu minh nua. Khong phai co nhung thu minh khong yeu ma sau nay minh lai ko thay yeu hoac ko yeu minh. Do la ban chat cua tu nhien va vu tru. Ban chat cua van vat.Hoac chang han qua lo lang cung ko tot. Ban dau hoach dinh mot thu va muon no that chi tiet, can than, va ti mi. Nghi ve mot viec, suy nghi qua xa, qua nhieu khia canh mot luc. Dan dan den hung phan qua muc va ko ngu duoc. Do cung la lam va xu ly sai ban chat. Ve ban chat, moi thu bat dau tu don gian va lap lai roi toi uu dan dan. Khong ai nghi ra mot thu toi uu ngay tu dau. Neu thu mot cai gi duoc va thanh cong ngay thi ko khac gi choi xo so. It nguoi co cai nhin thien cam ve viec danh cuoc tai van cua minh vao viec danh so, nhung trong cuoc song hau het moi nguoi nguoi lai nhin nhan va mong muon moi viec dien ra theo cach choi xo so vay. (Co le vi vay ma tro choi so moi thu hut duoc khach hang nhu the?). Nguoi ta lam cai gi thi cung vui ngay khi duoc dieu minh mong muon va buon hoac tuc gian ngay khi ket qua trai voi mong muon (wrong or different from expectation). Do la mot cach tiep can sai. Vi moi thuc te chi tiem can dan voi tri tuong tuong theo tan suat va thoi gian (hoac la nguoc lai: suy nghi tiem can dan voi thuc te). Moi viec deu can phai lam lap di lap lai that nhieu lan de "tot dan len", bat dau tu mot viec lam don gian nhat. Chinh vi the moi co cau "practice makes perfect". Nguoi lam nhieu nhat, thuc hanh nhieu nhat, sai nhanh va rut kinh nghiem nhanh nhat, tien bo dan len trong khoang thoi gian lau nhat thi la nguoi gioi nhat. Vi the ko viec gi phai nghi qua nhieu ve mot thu perfect hoac best solution ma minh chua biet vi co le no ko ton tai. Viec can lam la lam mot thu don gian ma minh co the thuc hien ngay duoc va rut kinh nghiem dan. Expect la no se phai lam lai nhieu lan truoc khi den dich.Cung nen ko nen qua lo lang vi nhung phan hoi khong tich cuc. VI the gioi co hang ha sa nhung dieu minh chua biet. Luon co nhung nguoi co the cung cap cho minh thu phan hoi ma minh mong muon. Hay tiep tuc thu nhung cach dat van de khac nhau, thu lai no cho nhieu phan hoi khac va se nhan duoc nhung phan hoi ma minh muon. Short cutKhi trong dau co mot muc tieu ro rang thi tu dung no hinh thanh nhung shortcut trong cach suy nghi de dat duoc den muc tieu nhanh nhat. Binh thuong thi bo nao no ket noi theo mot kieu khac, co the co nhung ket noi rat vong veo lam ban suy nghi rat vong veo va khong dan toi mot muc dich cu the nao ca. Nhung khi ban cam nhan va muon dat mot muc tieu gi do rat hien hien va ro rang thi lap tuc cac ket noi rut gon duoc hinh thanh de dan den muc tieu nhanh nhat, cac suy nghi cua ban se tap trung vao nhung buoc di quan trong nhat de dat den muc tieu ma thoi. Bo qua het nhung thu khong lien qua hoac ko giup ich gi cho viec dat muc tieu.Vi du, khi da bong, co nhung cau thu rat kheo leo, nhung co nhieu nguoi thuong bi sa da vao viec pho dien ky thuat ca nhan. Neu ban gap nhung doi thu nhu vay thi se rat yen tam vi nhung doi thu nhu vay thuong de tro thanh vo hai. Chi can biet dua ho vao the de ho co the pho dien thi ho se say sua bieu dien ma ko nhan ra rang minh van chi quanh quan dua bong long vong tai cho, lam cham nhip do cua ca doi bong tham chi lam dong doi khong hieu duoc cach choi, mat hung, mat bong v.v.... Sau mot hoi pho dien ky thuat thi ho se nhanh chong can kiet nang luong va khong con lam duoc dieu ho muon nua. Nguoc lai, doi thu dang so nhat la nhung nguoi da bong don gian, cham bong it nhung hieu qua. Nhung nguoi som nhan ra duoc con duong ngan nhat va hieu qua nhat de den gan goal. Nhung nguoi biet cach tao ra co hoi de tiep can khung thanh that nhanh va chuyen hoa no thanh ban thang. Nhung nguoi nay ho biet phan phoi rat tot nang luong de danh cho nhung viec huu ich nhat. Ho biet loi dung nhung nguon luc san co cua nguoi khac. Biet cach lam nhung viec trong don gian nhat nhung lai co hieu qua va tang su tu tin, gan ket cua ca doi bong. Quan trong nhat, vi ho biet muc tieu ro rang va quan trong nhat la ghi ban nen tu trong nhan thuc nghi ra cach lam duoc dieu do mot cach ngan gon, hieu qua nhat.Ap dung vao trong cuoc song. Co rat nhieu thu ban muon lam va nhin no co ve fancy. Nhung chi khi ban biet ro muc tieu cua minh thi ban se biet buoc di nao thiet yeu nhat va ban co du su tap trung cho nhung buoc di co tinh chuyen hoa, quyet dinh ay. Neu ban hinh dung ra canh tuong minh se la nhan vat trung tam cua lop hoc, muon tro thanh ngoi sao trong moi buoi hoc, muon minh la nguoi xuat sac nhat? Ban se biet tat ca nhung bai tap hom nay minh can phai giai quyet duoc bang moi gia. Ban se hieu rang ban can phai hieu va hoc truoc bai tren lop. Ban se biet tat ca nhung thu ban can chuan bi de ngay hom toi cua ban tren lop tro thanh buoi bieu dien hoan hao. Neu ban muon tro thanh ngoi sao o noi lam viec? O day co the co nhung bai tap da duoc dinh san thi hay chuan bi no that tot. Co khi kho de hinh dung dau se la nhung bai tap ? Se co nhung giai thuong, nhung cuoc thi, nhung cot moc quan trong phai target duoc no, hay chuan bi that tot cho no.Tinh huongTrong bong da co vo van tinh huong. Ngay don gian nhu nhan bong thi da co vo van kieu cach, tu the nhan bong khac nhau. Roi tinh huong tran dau cung thang tram, bien hoa va day bat ngo. Lam sao de co the chu dong voi su bat ngo? Phai luon xac dinh se co nhung su bat ngo, luon xac dinh co nhung thu xay ra ko ngay lap tuc nhu y muon. Cai hay, cai tai tinh chinh la cach ung pho voi nhung tinh huong ay va bien no thanh nhung trai nghiem va ket cuc tuyet voi. Giong nhu khi hoc van la hoc cach cam nhan. Nguoi ta danh gia cach cam nhan mot van de chu ko danh gia no la dung hay sai voi suy nghi cua tac gia ve tac pham. Neu su cam nhan ay day cam xuc, neu no mang lai su dong cam, su hy vong, niem tin, cach nhin lac quan hoac mo mang tam nhin cua nguoi khac ve van de mot cach sau rong, day du hon, moi la hon, thi do la cam nhan tot. Vi sao phai hoc cach cam nhan ? Vi moi van de tren doi nay co the xay ra theo vo van cach. No la rat quan trong de nang cao ky nang va hoc cach cam nhan moi thu da dang khac nhau ay. Next steps and supporting next stepTrong da bong, co the dieu quan trong nhat truoc, trong va sau khi xu ly tinh huong la tra loi cau hoi "what's next". Cau thu thong minh, play smart la nguoi luon luon biet truoc next move cua minh. Cung giong nhu nguoi choi co hay nguoi lam bat ky dieu gi khac, su khac nhau giua dai kien tuong hay nguoi choi binh thuong la kha nang ho co the tinh truoc duoc bao nhieu "next moves". Khi mot cau thu gioi chuan bi do bong thi ho da nghi toi se cham bong nhu the nao, voi luc the nao de vua du cho pha xu ly tiep theo, danh lua duoc doi thu hoac tao ra mot tu the xu ly thuan loi, hoac co the se la mot pha da mot cham ngay toi muc tieu nao do. Nguoi choi binh thuong thi khi bong den thi moi bat dau chat vat xu ly qua bong va moi bat dau nghi xem nen lam gi voi no. Vi the ho luon bi lung tung, bi dong va cham so voi tinh huong thuc te. Ho se chat vat de xu ly nhung thu se dien ra vi ho ko co tam ly chuan bi tot, bi bat ngo. Cai tam the o day la cai quan trong.Doi voi tam ly ve xu ly tinh huong co may yeu to:1. Doi voi minh: tu cau thu se biet minh can co buoc di chuyen tiep theo the nao de ho tro nguoi kia xu ly bong hoac lam cau noi cho duong bong tiep theo. Neu khong co cau noi thi mach tinh huong se be tac, dinh tre hoac co the phan tac dung. Vi the cac buoc trien khai tiep theo phai duoc tinh toan som va trien khai tu truoc de no dien ra lien tiep, khong co khoang thoi gian cho qua lau.2. Doi voi nguoi khac: Nguoi ta co the da tinh truoc ca khi ban qua bong thi nguoi kia co o vao vi tri thuan loi khong? Ban nhu the nao de nguoi do co the de dang xu ly tinh huong tiep theo ? Do la tam ly nghi cho nguoi khac.3. Cam on va xin loi: Day la tam the het suc quan trong. Cam on hay appreciation la cai tao dong luc cho su viec duoc tien trien tot hon bat ke tinh huong dien ra tot hay xau. Biet nhin ra cai hay, cai tot trong tinh huong vua xay ra hay cach xu ly bong cua dong doi. Dong vien ho, danh tang loi khen ve bat ky khia canh nao do, the hien minh appreciate su no luc cua ho va thay ho dang lam tot dieu gi do, no se tao ra nang luong tich cuc cho ho va cho ca doi lam tot hon cong viec chung. Cung xin loi neu mot viec xay ra khong nhu y muon va nhin nhan ra trach nhiem nao la cua minh trong do, thay vi do loi cho nguoi khac. Du su viec xay ra trong co ve hien nhien the nao de ban co the doi loi cho nguoi khac thi van nhan trach nhiem ve phan minh. Dieu do khong nhung khong lam ban yeu di ma lam hinh anh cua ban manh me hon bao gio het. Thai do cao thuong do se truyen cam hung cho tat ca dong doi tro len co trach nhiem va cao thuong. 4. Avoiding risk: xu ly moi tinh huong bong that chac chan. Khong voi va lao len ma rinh rap cho thoi co, da tung duong bong that don gian nhung de dang va chac chan se giup ban tranh duoc tinh huong mat bong khong nhu y va hau qua la thung luoi khi ca doi deu khong chuan bi tinh than. Vi vay, da tung qua bong dat nhanh nhung don gian va de dang trong thi co ve la dieu vun vat nhung lai chinh la nghe thuat cua su don gian de tao len nhung ket qua khong tuong. Cai dieu gian don nay lai rat it nguoi biet den boi vi no qua don gian. Dau oc con nguoi lai hay thich co gang digest nhung thu to tat. Cha han co gang hinh dung het tat ca tinh huong cua mot ban thang doi khi khong he de dang. Giong nhu trong cuoc song nghi duoc het moi thu se lam the nao thi that la kho, vi do phuc tap cua nhung dieu co the xay ra la qua to lon. Nhung tap trung vao mot viec that don gian ma minh co the lam duoc ngay va lam no that tot, that nhanh chong, that lien tuc thi se tao ra mot luc day cuc lon de di den dich.

Cam xuc Sau moi tran bong nhu thuong thuc mot cau truyen vay. Cau truyen nho ve cuoc song ma minh co the nham nhi nhung y nghia va cam xuc cua no. Moi tran bong moi khac, mot bai hoc, mot dieu gi do thu vi co the rut ra va ap dung.  Hom nay di tap gym ve, chua kip an. Ra da bong khoi dong sut bong nhieu, rat luc. Nhung nguoi thua luc ma thieu su mem deo. Co the noi hom nay challenge la dieu khien mot khuc go. Lam sao de vua cung cap ma vua mem deo. Du duoi nang luong nhung van giu duoc cam xuc va cai dau tinh tao ? Hom nay thay khong du suc nhieu nhu nhung ngay duoc nghi ngoi day du, nen khong cover duoc nhung mat xich yeu cua doi. Nhung mat xich qua yeu binh thuong khi duoc cover va support tot thi van hoat dong tron tru. Hom nay moi lo ra va tro thanh tu huyet.  Doi thua lien tiep, khong phai vi khong co co hoi ma cac co hoi deu bi bo lo, trong khi nhung sai lam deu bien thanh sai lam chet nguoi. Tuy nhien cai hay la trong tinh trang ca doi duoi suc, reu ra, mat tinh than, van lay lai duoc su binh tinh, phan tich van de, thay doi cam xuc thanh tam ly thoai mai cua nguoi chien thang, vuc day duoc tinh than ca doi va don ep cho doi ban mat the tran, suy nhuoc the luc... Bai hoc hay la nhan ra khi minh la trung tam duy nhat hoat dong, minh se kiet suc trong khi cac mat xich khac khong biet lam gi. Minh cung de bi bat bai hon vi doi phuong co mot muc tieu ro rang. Nguoc lai, neu minh chon lam nguoi support, biet tim ra dau la mat xich chinh can support, luc nao can support o dau va nhu the nao, thi ca doi se deu manh len. Doi thu cung khong biet duong nao de bat bai vi khi ay minh khong phai la yeu to quan sat duoc, bat bai duoc ma minh chi la support cua tinh huong, ma tinh huong trong bong da thi rat kho co the doan biet. Bai hoc nua la suc manh tinh than, quan trong khong phai la chi biet enjoy chien thang ma phai biet enjoy ca that bai. Moi tinh huong deu co nhung dieu thu vi de doc no, khong phai la thang hay thua, 2 cai day khong that su quan trong va chi la tuong doi, thang cua nguoi nay la thua cua nguoi kia va nguoc lai. Vi the tam ly ay la tam ly bat bai, luon enjoy. Thu linh thuc su la nguoi co tinh than manh me, lac quan trong ca tinh huong di nguoc voi su mong doi cua dai da so, vi nguoi thuc su thong thao triet dao thi se hieu, chung ta sinh ra khong phai chi de dam chim trong chien thang, vi nhu the chung ta chua hoc duoc het, day la mot bai hoc meo mo. Nguoi thau hieu moi chuyen se hieu muc dich cua chung ta la trai nghiem va hoc trai nghiem, vi vay moi mat cua van de deu quan trong va co y nghia. Chien thang qua nhieu thi se co nhung luc that bai vi chung ta can no de hoc them dieu gi do moi. Nguoi nhin thay dieu do thi se la nguoi manh me vi dai, dung len tu moi do vo va la cho dua cua tat ca. Find yourself - Define yourself The universe is the sphere of possibilities. Parallel realities co-existing and you choose your vibration, frequency, emotion, attitude to feel and to experience which one. It is not about what the situation is now, it is about how will it turn out, how you want it to turn out, how you want to feel it turn out, how you feel the amazing of possibilities, of changes, of turning out.  Find your better self as you have both good and bad self. You are recreated, you are refreshed, you are new every now and then. Try to seek for your better self, good self that you want to be. Define your self.

How to know that you are good at something?

2. You really know what to do. You know exactly what need to done in each situation. What is likely going to happen and what need to be prepared, what to do when it happens.

Most people don't know what to do so they need someone to tell them what to do. But good people always know in advance what to do. The better one knows the more steps in advance, prepare more in advance.

3. You are happy with everything around you, the people in your team, the people in opponent team.

4. You provide excellent support for people around you. You are the connection in the team, fill in the gap, make the bridge for steps to connect and happen.

5. No matter what the situation or the result will be, you always feel good, because you learn something interesting about it. The present is always a brand new with unpredicted that you like to cope, find out and play with.

6. You will continue to do it everyday, every time not for the shake of earning something but because you just like it.

1. Sometime you perform a skill that everybody has to applause (an amazing goal, a good shoot that score, etc.)

Today I learn 2 new important things from the match:

1. The momentum is very important. If you prepare the tactic for your team, you should do every way of positions, passing that help to build the momentum for the team in the match. It should be the continuous flow, your players come up, support each other, it bring the very big momentum for the whole team and make your opponent scare, you can control the game. It is very important, if it got any miss-linked, any disruption, the team will be in difficulty.

Same in life, if you want to do anything well, try to build momentum by doing series of small, easy, clear steps that you can always execute and support the total process. We often get disrupted when we face some challenge and it disconnect us to the way to our goal. So prepared the options, solutions for it, prepared the support for that cases, make the whole thing flow, build the momentum !

2. When you play well you know how to prepare for the situation, how to preserve your energy. Best player work hard in the match but they never get exhausted. They work hard but keep the methodology simple, the way the execute looks easy. It looks like they are walking in the park, not a desperate, exhausted worker burning to the full tank and their metal limit.. They can do that because they prepare well ahead the solutions, the steps to execute; they can do that also because they can control and manage their emotion and energy just at the most effective level.

So if you are doing something and work very hard but you also get too exhausted, might be because you are trying to find something but too many options you do not know the best match yet? You got desparated and exhausted. So you have to learn the above idea, work hard but preserve energy control your emotion and most important, accept the time sequence. Everything will take time and we will take one step at a time. Give it time and accept that we can solved some certain things, some will be solved out gradually. Plan it ahead and understand it for the future as well.

Mot tran thua dam voi doi hình vuot troi, voi the tran ap dao va lan luot tu dau. Do la mot hoanh canh hay de học va nhìn nhan được rất nhieu dieu moi.

Khi dang co mat tren san thi doi dan truoc de dang va lam chu hoan toan the tran. Khi vua ra san mot luc thi doi thung ngay 2 ban. Cam thay thieu minh la doi van hanh chech choac ngay. Day la mot cach hieu van de nguy hiem. No co the dung nhung no nguy hiem. Vi no dan den viec hieu rang mot he thong chi co the hoat dong tot khi co minh, nhu vay do khong phai he thong tot, he thong ma su van hanh cua no phai phu thuoc vao su co mat cua minh. Mot he thong tot la he thong co kha nang tu dieu chinh va hoat dong tot trong cac dieu kien va hoan canh khac nhau. Neu minh lam cho moi nguoi phu thuoc vao minh thi co le minh da lam chua tot.

Mot cai nhin sai nua la minh cam thay mot vai vi tri o giua san khong hoat dong tot roi sau do minh bat dau thay nhung ca nhan nay khong chiu thay doi va co suy nghi sai. Tu cach nghi nay minh dan cam thay nhieu nhuoc diem tu cac vi tri nay. Nhung day lai la cach suy nghi sai. Neu minh nhin ho da o ben doi khac, vi du nhu tran dau ngay hom qua, khi ho o ben doi thu, ho da danh bai minh. Nhu vay ho co the tro nen rat nguy hiem nhung ho chua phat huy duoc tot nhat thoi.

Dac biet la truong hop cua ong gia. Tuan truoc minh va nhieu nguoi da rat ngan ngam ve nhung duong chuyen vo trach nhiem va thuong xuyen lam mat bong cua ong gia. Nhung hom nay khi ong ay da cho doi phuong thi ong ay nhu hoan toan lot xac. Mot nguoi thi dau nang no, nhanh nhen. Xu ly tot rat nhieu tinh huong cam bong. Tich cuc tham gia tranh cuop va phong thu. Gay ra nhieu kho khan cho doi minh. Cam thay day hoan toan nhu mot con nguoi khac, mot nguoi anh em sinh doi, trong giong het nhung ky nang thi hoan toan vuot troi. Tai sao cung mot con nguoi ma lai the hien 2 phong do hoan toan trai nguoc ?

Hoa ra van de nam o cho cach nhin cua minh khac nhau cho cung mot van de. Khi ho o doi minh va mac nhung sai lam, minh bat dau tap trung nhieu hon vao nhung sai sot cua ho va thay ro hon su thieu sot trong dong gop cua ho. Khi ho o ben doi phuong va gay ra kho khan thi minh da thay duoc nhung uu diem cua ho khi tao ra kho khan cho minh. Ho van vay, van la nhung con nguoi ay. Suy nghi ky lai thi ong gia van khong co tien bo nhieu trong viec chuyen bong, trong tran thang kia thi ong van ban chuyen nhu vay, khong qua xuat sac, nhung minh chi chu y nhieu hon den viec ong ay lam tot trong phong ngu va cam bong. Cac cau thu tien ve cung vay, khi ho o ben doi thang, thuc ra ho cung khong di chuyen nhieu hon qua nhieu, ho van co nhung dac diem la di chuyen khong rong lam, nhung cac dong doi chi phoi hop tot hon voi ho va lam thanh mot doi minh ket dinh va linh dong hon.

Cai kho la lam sao de nguoi ta phat huy duoc tot nhat kha nang cua minh.

Nhu vay o day co 3 dieu can rut ra. 

Dieu dau tien va quan trong nhat chinh la cach nhin. Loai nguoi da trai qua bao nhieu thoi ky tam toi chi vi tu minh thoat duoc canh “mu loa”. Bang viec co cach nhin moi ho tro len tien bo vuot bac, tu viec nhin Trai Dat la phang, roi Trai Dat la trung tam vu tru, roi bong den khong the treo nguoc, con nguoi khong the bay v.v… Khi nguoi ta khong co cach nhin moi cung la luc dot pha sang tao dung lai. Nguoi ta thay moi thu la kho la vi nguoi ta chua biet cach lam, khi da biet cach lam thi cai j cung tro thanh de, su thay doi do la do nguoi ta da co cach nhin moi. 

Moi su vat hien tuong deu co ca 2 mat, khong phai tu nhien ma nguoi ta khuyen nen nhin van de mot cach tich cuc. Dien tien cua tuong lai giong nhu mot su boi dap, khi nguoi ta chon huong nhin tieu cuc, no se tiep tuc boi dap va dan den mot huong di cua tuong lai nhieu dieu tieu cuc hon. Khi nguoi ta chon cai nhin tich cuc, no se tiet ra nhung hooc mon tot, khich le dong vien nguoi ta va dan den dong luc cho nguoi ta de dat duoc nhung ket qua tich cuc hon. 

Do cung la ly do khi khong biet lam the nao la dung thi viec lam dung chinh la hay lam mot viec that nho, that de dang ma chac chan minh lam duoc tot. Cu lam lien tuc nhung buoc nho ma minh co the lam tot se giup boi dap huong di dan den nhung thanh cong lien tiep.

Dieu thu ba. Khi nguoi ta noi mot nguoi, mot su vat khong hop voi minh (phong thuy, tuong so), co le nguoi ta muon noi rang voi nguoi va su vat ay thi minh de nhin thay nhung diem khong tot o ho, sau do minh se khuech dai dieu ay len va minh se luon cam thay khong thuan loi hoac kho chiu voi ho. No la khi minh thuong nhin thay mat khong tich cuc o nhung nguoi, su vat nay hon la mat tich cuc. Vay van de cua su khong phu hop nay cung la den tu minh. De khac che dieu nay phai biet xoay doi cach nhin, dat no vao hoan canh khac, goc nhin khac de co the thay duoc cai mat kia, mat tich cuc cua con nguoi, su vat ay.

Vi du nhin nhan ve can benh ung thu. Con nguoi bay gio dang bo tay voi no vi ho dang chi nhin nhan ung thu nhu mot ke thu, ho chi tim cach tan cong ung thu va loay hoay khong biet lam cach nao de tim ra diem yeu cua no. Hay thu nhin van de theo cach khac, hay su dung thu ung thu nhu mot vu khi, hay muon co che cua no de thu tan cong sinh vat nguy hiem nao do trong tu nhien ? Tu nhien rat thong minh va vi dieu, no se biet cach hoc va tu dieu chinh tot hon cach con nguoi nghi. Neu dung co che cua ung thu de tan cong mot co che nao cua tu nhien, chac chan tu nhien se tim cach dieu chinh va co the khi do chung ta se hoc duoc diem yeu cua ung thu, hoc duoc cach tu nhien xu ly van de nay.

Mon 8th Nov 2021

Học quên và tưởng tượng

Có 2 kỹ năng mà người ta không đánh giá đúng mức sự quan trọng của nó là kỹ năng quên và kỹ năng tưởng tượng.
Quên người ta thường nghĩ là nhược điểm nhưng thực ra quên đi đôi khi lại rất cần thiết. Ngay ở trong đạo người ta còn nói rằng khi sang kiếp sống mới con người cần phải quên đi những câu chuyện, những mối quan hệ ở các tiền kiếp, nếu không độ phức tạp và khó khăn về cảm xúc là quá lớn cho khả năng chịu đựng của con người.
Ngay ở đời sống hiện tại, có những thứ trong cuộc sống như thói quen, kinh nghiệm không tốt cũng rất đáng để quên đi. Nếu có khả năng đoạn tuyệt với quá khứ thì giống như thoát khỏi nhân quả của quá khứ. Những nhân tốt thì cho quả tốt. Những nhân xấu ta cần quên và đoạn tuyệt với nó.
Nhưng đầu óc con người thường tự bận rộn với những điều đã xảy ra, những lo lắng, nghĩ ngợi, so bì hay dự đoán xem người khác sẽ đánh giá thế nào về mình. Tất cả những điều này hoàn toàn vô bổ và bóp nghẹt khả năng tái tạo, thư giãn của cơ thể. Những lúc như thế hãy học một đứa trẻ sơ sinh, không biết cái gì cả, không hiểu gì cả, không biết ai cả. Không lo, không nghĩ, ko sợ sệt.
Nhưng đầu óc một người trưởng thành thì rất khó để có thể ngồi yên. Nó luôn tìm hoạt động hay nghĩ về một cái gì đó. Đó là lúc cho kỹ năng thứ 2 phát huy công dụng: sự tưởng tượng.
Khả năng tưởng tượng là khả năng rất to lớn của con người nhưng với nhiều người nó ít được sử dụng. Sự tưởng tượng có thể giúp mang con người đến sống trong những cảm xúc mà thực tại chưa hề có được. Nó không bị bất kỳ giới hạn gì về không gian, thời gian, quan hệ xã hội v.v... Nó giúp hình thành trong não bộ những nếp nhăn thói quen mà chỉ thực hành mới có thể tạo ra được. Nó giúp tạo ra những thói quen cảm xúc mà không phải thực tế nào cũng mang lại được.
Nếu có thể tưởng tượng về những thành quả và xúc cảm tốt đẹp mà những hành động sẽ mang lại, những bối cảnh và tình huống của cá nhân sẽ thao tác để mang đến kết quả đó, thì tự bản thân sẽ hình thành lên những kỹ năng của thiên tài trong lĩnh vực đó.
Sự tưởng tượng về những cảm xúc tốt đẹp cả của bản thân và của những người liên quan đến sự việc sẽ giúp thay thế những cảm giác bó buộc, căng thẳng ko mong muốn của thực tại.