Chiem nghiem

"Everything is relativity, only one thing is absolute: it is everything is relativity."

 Everything is changing, there only one thing never changes is everything will change.

"Co mot ke thu trong doi da la qua nhieu. "

Bat ky ai cung co it nhat mot diem tot. Chi can tap trung va cam thay thu vi ve dieu do. Giong nhu voi tre nho, no co the thuong xuyen quay khoc, nhung ban se chi nho nhung giay phut hon nhien, dang yeu cua no da cam thay thu vi roi.

- Tat ca moi thu ban chat la anh sang.

- Moi nguoi xung quanh thuc chat lGa reflexion cua cam xuc cua minh. Moi nguoi se co 2 phan: reflexion cam xuc cua chinh ho ve ban than va reflexion cam xuc cua minh ve ho.

- Ban chat cac hinh tron la dong dang, co the coi cac hinh tron khac nhau thuc chat la mot hinh tron nhung thay doi ve do phong dai. Cac hinh tron deu co diem chung la su phan doi deu, khoang cach ko doi den diem trung tam, vi the co mot ty le khong doi giua chu vi voi khoang cach nay.

2*pi*R

giuong nhu co mot su tuong dong ve nang luong. 

E= m*c*c

Nhu vay neu moi thu deu mang nang luong, lieu moi thu deu co tuong dong va co mot su phan bo deu nao do ?

Khi nguoi khac gop y cho minh ve nhung cach lam chua dung thi minh thuong kho tiep thu vi minh nhin no duoi goc do "Ah, thi anh dang noi rang anh la tot con toi thi chua tot". Nhung thuc ra do la goc nhin sai. Thuc ra nhung nguoi gioi, thanh cong la nhung nguoi da sai lam va that bai rat nhieu. Ho da mac sai lam rat nhieu. Cang sai lam nhieu va nhanh, cang co thoi gian hoc hoi duoc nhieu. Khi ho gop y cho ta la ho muon ta tranh duoc cac sai lam ho da mac phai. Vi vay, ta nen nhin no duoi goc do "ah, anh da tung sai lam giong nhu the hoac nhieu hon the va bay gio anh muon chia se nhung sai lam tuong tu anh da mac phai de giup toi tranh duoc dieu do. Toi phai cam on anh rat nhieu ! "

How did I make 1 million a year?

 Recently I do a research on how to earn 1 million a year. There are quite a few people wrote about this. But many of them come with some things very general and you can hardly learn anything from it like 5 or 6 steps with: 

find the pain point in the market, come up with an attractive solution, have a detail plan, blah blah ...

While this one might be true but not necessarily the practical one for you to follow. There are many ways to say about something but to quickly repeat it and get the same results, you need find the most critical points, not any right point to describe it. 

Let's make an example: if you ask how to dribble the ball like Lionel Messi, then you might fight many answers like: you need to practice very early since young age, then work hard everyday, then keep learning from your mistakes, blah blah... All these could be also something that Messi does have, but not everyone apply them would get to the similar result, and actually, most of people will not. Only when Messi, himself, show you on the video and teach you how did he make the tricks and break down the magic on a simple tutorial video, then you get the most critical points: it is about using the momentum to beat the opponent. That one simple trick say it all. Then he described it in few simple steps, from how he use his posture, how should the relative distance with the ball, how should be the speed and direction before and at the moment you make the turn and especially your relative relationship between you and the opponent. 

That is some kind of answer we are trying to find here. But to get it we need to either lucky enough to find a very good coach who has been extremely successful (like Lionel Messi in the above example) and at the same time he wants and can convey the idea to the concept for us; OR for the rest of the time, we would need to "learn by example" which mean trying to "witness" the real life success stories and feed that info into our brain, from there our brain will use its "neuron network processing", "machine learning" to figure out a model that it think will be the common for all these success stories, and sometimes we only can feel it but cannot explain it, just like "deep learning", some magics happen in the black box, we just don't really know exactly what it is there, but it works. :D

So I am trying to use this second approach because the first option is not immediately available for me at this moment of time. I searched for people that made 1 million dollar per year. I saw these main categories: 

Category one: manager director, ceo, partner, vc investors, etc. these guys would either have many good years of experience, education, network of relationships, initial money in the bank.  But if you have this you might not in the search for this question any more.

Second category: celebrities: actors, actress, entertainment or sport celebrities. That also no place for "normal people" like us.

Finally, there is a category for the guys who is the guru in selling self-help books, youtuber, etc. That might be the closest thing that we could fit in. So I chose this category to work on. 

 Next in second part: how did I start on the third category? what is the plan and steps? what I need to prepare in mind ?

Quote

 I expect my day is full of unexpectation and unknowns, the rest is for my imagination.

Dieu ta nhin thay va dieu thuc su xay ra: Khi chung ta nghe thay moi nguoi ca ngoi ve ai do, hay ca ngoi ve ban than hoac su viec gi do that tuyet voi va dep de thi chung ta se co hieu biet gi ? Khong phai ta se co them hieu biet la ai do, nguoi do hoac su viec do that tuyet voi va dep de, ma chung ta hieu rang nguoi noi dang yeu ai do, ban than minh hoac su viec do. Khi yeu thi moi thu deu tro nen tuyet voi va dep de. Khi yeu nguoi ta chi nhin thay nhung cai tot cai dep, cai tuyet voi, hoac yeu tat ca moi thu ve dieu do nen ho se noi voi dieu do voi mot cach khac. Nen nguoi ta noi tinh yeu luc dau toan mau hong la the. Nguoi ta se luon nhin vao nhung thu tot dep tich cuc. Con moi con nguoi, su vat, hien tuong deu co 2 mat, tot va xau, nhu am voi duong. Khi ta yeu cuoc song thi ta thay moi su viec deu co y nghia va su tot dep cua no.

Nhung thay ta nhin thay chi la bieu hien nhin thay duoc cua nhung dieu khong nhin thay duoc. Vi the no co the ko dung theo cach ta nhan thuc truc tiep hoac su danh gia cua ta la khong toan dien. Vi du, ta thay trai tao roi, cac vat tha ra deu roi xuong nhung ta khong nhin thay duoc khong gian, thoi gian bi uon cong. Nhung con nguoi, su vat, hien tuong ta nhin thay khong phai la nhung thu ap dat len ta ma no chi la bieu hien ben ngoai cua cai the gioi ta tao ra va lua chon.

Loi noi: chung ta duoc cho loi noi de su dung theo 2 cach: 1 la noi ra nhu mot ong hoang, 2 la noi ra de bien nguoi khac thanh ba hoang. Cach thu nhat la noi de nguoi khac phai nghe theo, phai ne so, phai kinh phuc. Cach thu hai la noi ra de nguoi khac cam thay duoc tran trong, yeu thuong, duoc yeu chieu.

"I don't hope, I just try" => what does that means? That means "I don't care what is your reaction, I give you a chance, if your response is not good, I give the chance for someone else".

"What are you expecting is not important because the reality can always be different form your expectation. But what you will feel is important because you already decided to feel that way".
3. Moi thu deu co the la su thatMoi su that ta deu co the tao ra

Law

 Cuoc song nhu mot nguoi con gai, ho thich nhung loi noi dep. Neu dieu gi trong cuoc song xay ra ko nhu ban mong muon, ban trach moc cuoc song, ban danh nhung cam xuc khong tot, lieu moi thu co tot dep hon? Cung nhu trong moi quan he voi mot co gai cung vay, neu moi chuyen ko nhu y ban va quay ra trach moc, cu xu te hai thi moi chuyen chi xau di. Nguoc lai hay luon doi xu bang tinh cam tot nhat, nhin nhan thay nhung dieu hay ho cua co ay va hay luon tran trong gia tri cua ban than nua, mo rong co hoi voi rat nhieu moi quan he khac. No se lam ban tro len that hap dan.

Va hon nua, phu nu thi luon thay doi, bay gio ho ko mim cuoi voi ban khong co nghia la ho se ko thay doi. Bay gio ho to ra kho khan khong co nghia la sau nay ho se mai luon nhu the. Nhung kho khan trong cuoc song cung vay thoi. Cung chi la tam thoi va ko truong ton.

Khi bat dau mot moi quan he voi co gai, ban co mot muc dich nao do ko? Neu co thi no co xay ra nhu y ngay lap tuc ko ? Di nhien la ko, no se trai qua tung buoc, tung buoc. Nhung ban luon thich thu tung chi tiet xay ra trong moi quan he do, du buon, du vui, du co nhung luc met moi nhung khi ban don het tam tu, tinh cam, ban thay no duong nhu xay ra that nhanh, that lien tuc. Thuc ra chi vi ban lien tuc tuong tac va thay no dien ra that lien tuc. Moi thu trong cuoc song cung vay, thuc ra co nhung thu lien tuc chen ngang, vi vay dung nhin vao mot khoanh khac cua hien tuong de danh gia ca van de. Hay co tam nhin qua thoi gian de thay no xay ra rat nhieu lan nua trong tuong lai, co nhung khoang cach ve thoi gian lau hon minh mong muon. Co khi minh phai tien tung buoc nho mot. Hay binh than voi mot ket qua tuc thoi. Neu ban cam trai bong len va tang bong, nhung nhip dau tien trai bong se nay lung tung va duong nhu khong dieu gi dien ra nhu mong muon. Nhung ban khong bo cuoc va sau mot khoang thoi gian rut kinh nghiem va tu cai thien, trai bong bat dau nay len theo dieu khien va mong muon cua ban. Thuc ra trai bong luon nay ra dung quy luat cua no, luon luon la nhu vay. Nhung gi xay ra trong cuoc song cung vay, chi la bieu hien cua nhung quy luat dang ap dung len no, no giup chung ta nhin thay nhung quy luat do, khong bao gio sai ca.

Bo nao cua con nguoi, dong suy nghi, dong cam xuc nhu mot dong nuoc, no chay theo con duong de dang nhat. Con nguoi luon lam nhung thu nguoi ta cam thay thoai mai va de dang nhat. Va thong thuong do la dieu gi nguoi ta da biet va lam rat nhieu lan. Chinh vi the de thanh thuc mot ki nang nao do cac van dong vien chuyen nghiep thuong phai lam rat nhieu, rat nhieu lan, lap di lap lai. No tao ra “loi mon” trong suy nghi, trong cam xuc, trong nao bo va sau mot khoang thoi gian “con duong” da duoc tao ra thi khi bat dau no se dien ra hoan toan tu nhien. Nhung viec ta lam ma ta nghi la de nhu an chao la do ta lam hang ngay, moi ngay vai lan va lam lien tuc trong hang chuc nam, tu khi ta moi chi la dua tre 2-3 tuoi. Vi the muon lam mot dieu gi moi, hay lam mot dieu gi do de nhat, don gian nhat ma minh co the lam duoc ngay lap tuc, vi du chi nam nham mat va nghi ve no trong 1 phut. Co the buoc dau tien no chi bat dau nhu the ! No se trai qua nhieu buoc, nhieu ngay, cu tung buoc, tung buoc mot, lap di lap lai, qua nhieu lan no se thanh viec tu nhien, de dang nhu an chao.

Su danh gia: kha nang danh gia cua ban khong phai luc nao cung dung vi vay dung qua le thuoc vao danh gia cua ban than. Ngay ca viec tu danh gia chinh minh chung ta con khong phai luc nao cung chinh xac vi the dung qua coi trong danh gia cua minh ve cac su vat, hien tuong, con nguoi.

Va cuoi cung, ban nghi rang minh hieu ve the gioi nay va cuoc song nay ? Khong. Ban khong hieu gi ca. No qua to lon so voi nhung thu ban bi bao boc boi. Ban khong the hieu het nhung quy luat va nguyen tac cua no. No khong phai luon xay ra theo nhung hieu biet va suy nghi cua ban. Nhu mot dua tre so sinh, khi no doi thi no khoc va se co nguoi cho no bu. Viec no co the lam la khoc va no se khoc that to, khoc that nhieu cho den khi no duoc an. No khong can phai biet lam the nao no co the den duoc voi nguon sua. No khong can phai biet can phong xung quanh trong nhu the nao. Khong can phai biet ai se den. Khong can phai biet viec no lam co lam phien ai hay khien ai suy nghi ra sao. Va se co nguoi den cho no sua. Ban cung vay, ban ko can phai nho nhung cam xuc that bai trong qua khu, khong can phai ban tam dieu gi se xay ra, khong can biet no co hop ly voi nhung hieu biet cua ban hay khong. Hay lam cat luc cho dieu ban muon. The gioi se tu no tim cach giai quyet mong muon ay.

Tho

 chung ta buoc ra tu trong nhung giac mo

buoc vao doi voi hinh hai be nho

moi sang thuc day hao huc voi nhung trai nghiem moi me

Khoanh khac

 Nhin vao vu tru moi thay moi perception thuong nhat cua con nguoi nho be den the nao. Tu khoang cach, khong gian, thoi gian. Cuoc doi nguoi neu so voi tuoi vu tru cung chi nhu mot khoanh khac. Vay ma con nguoi van nhieu khi ban long vi tung chi tiet that nho trong cuoc song, khong biet roi moi thu cung vut di nhu mot khoanh khac ma sau nay nhung dieu ay co the cha con y nghia gi, cha quan trong gi voi ai, cha ai biet den. Nhung thu nguoi ta tuong la to tat, he trong thuc ra cung cha co y nghia gi. 

Principles

 0. Hoc van la hoc cach cam nhan. Nguoi ta danh gia cach cam nhan mot van de chu ko danh gia no la dung hay sai voi suy nghi cua tac gia ve tac pham. Neu su cam nhan ay day cam xuc, neu no mang lai su dong cam, su hy vong, niem tin, cach nhin lac quan hoac mo mang tam nhin cua nguoi khac ve van de mot cach sau rong, day du hon, moi la hon, thi do la cam nhan tot. 

Vi sao phai hoc cach cam nhan ? Vi moi van de tren doi nay co the xay ra theo vo van cach. No la rat quan trong de nang cao ky nang va hoc cach cam nhan moi thu da dang khac nhau ay.   1. Khong co gi hoan toan tot hoac hoan toan xau tren doi. Moi thu deu dien ra theo quy luat. Can phai hieu nguyen nhan dan den su viec va quy luat de co the tranh duoc no khi can. 2. Khong duoc so hai. - Khong so that bai de luon dam thu nhung dieu moi. Vuot qua noi so hai cua chinh minh.  - Khong so moi nguoi se danh gia de noi va lam nhung dieu minh muon. - Khong so mat mat de khong dam dau tu. Moi thu deu co rui ro. Quan trong la muc do rui ro va no co nam trong tam kiem soat khong. - Khong so nguoi khac nghi minh la dot ma dau dot. Khong so nguoi khac noi dieu kho' nghe ve minh ma ne' tranh'. - Noi so bat nguon tu su thieu hieu biet va tu tin. “For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: ‘If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?’ And whenever the answer has been ‘No’ for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.”—Steve Jobs    Steve Jobs believed that we don’t get the chance to do that many things, so each thing we do should truly be excellent—because it’s our life. A good thing for all of us to remember as we strive to succeed in this competitive business environment…. 3. Cach tiep can van de dung la rat quan trong. - Cung mot viec, cung bo nhieu thoi gian, tam huyet nhung nguoi tiep can van de dung cach se cho ket qua khac biet. - Cung con nguoi, moi quan he, nhung cach tiep can dung se tao ra nhung ket qua khac. 4. Dung bao gio ngai song tot voi mot ai do'. Minh chi cam thay te neu doi xu voi ai do khong tot chu khong phai vi minh song tot voi ai do qua' hoac ai do khong tot voi minh. Boi vi neu minh trach cu mot nguoi nao do thi khong co gi xay ra ca, ho co the bo di. Nhung neu tu dan vat chinh minh moi dang so, minh khong the chay di dau duoc ca. 5. Thu co gia tri ma cung la thu re nhat chinh la loi noi. Voi nguoi biet trong danh du thi loi noi cua ho rat co gia tri. Nhung loi noi cung la cai de nhat ma ai cung noi ra duoc. Ai cung co the ve ra du cau chuyen lung linh, hoanh trang chi bang loi noi. Nguoi ta cung co the hua hen voi nhau hang ha sa thu hap dan bang loi noi. Nguoi ta co the ban' cho nhau nhung uoc mo cung bang loi noi. Loi noi rat re, phai biet cach su dung loi noi. - Lesson from the old lady beggar There's an old  poor lady who can hardly walk, but she trying to push a big troller and collecting empty cans from the rubbish. Not only me but any one who see her slow, crubling walk on the street also feel pitty for her. I really want to come by and give her some cashes. But there is something from her make me hesitage. She is not a begger, she earning money with her own labour and I really afraid if I come and give her money it can hurt her. I stand, look at her and hesitage for so long, hold money on my hand but cannot do that. If she just have a paper on her trolley writing that she will accept charity, I will be very happy to do that! And finnaly she pass by and I walk home still think about it very long. I wondering what makes she different from normal begger. I can see not only me but many people really want to help her. But the normal begger people can give them money but they are not really into it. And my answer is this old lady really make her different. Her image on her work really outstanding and really make people feel pitty for her, and if now, she switch to be a begger, or she just have a way for people to know that they can make charity for her, she will sure get lots of money. And I am thinking about other cases in the society. Some people really famous like footballer, singer etc. and when they open fashion shops, restaurants, they can earn very well. So what is the lesson here ? The lesson is to be very good at something you are capable of, then switch the model, that is when you start to make the money. There is no problem what professional you can be good at, just be really good at it and switch it, you will have good business. Dai y cach kiem tien tot la lam mot viec j do that tot roi doi mo hinh Giong ca si, cau thu, MC, v.v... Khi da noi tieng gay dc chu y doi sang kinh doanh rat de kiem tien Giong ba an xin day Ba day ma di lam an may chua chac canh tranh duoc Nhug ba y lai lam nghe nhat rac Va trong rat dang thuong Neu nhu ba y chap nhan lay tien tu thien Chac chan se rat thanh cong Vi lam nghe nhat rac nhung lai trong kho so hon nhung nguoi nhat rac khac Co loi the canh tranh, gay dc chu y, doi mo hinh Day la bai hoc - What make a great man - Deep thinking make champion 6. Who can't be your good team mate can be your good opponent! 7. Nen tap noi va viet ve ban than hang ngay, dieu minh expect nguoi khac se mo ta va nho ve minh. 8. Giau` la nhieu. Co nhieu khach hang, phuc vu dap ung nhu cau nhieu nguoi, co nhieu moi lam an, mua nhieu cong ty, dau tu nhieu noi, co anh huong len nhieu nguoi, mang luoi trao doi voi nhieu nguoi, quang ba duoc nhieu nguoi, v.v.... Muon giau chac chan phai lam cai gi do nhieu, so luong lon. Vi the so huu bat ki cai gi nhieu cung la loi the. Quoc gia dong dan thi rat de giau vi nhieu luc luong lao dong, tieu thu manh. Co nhieu ban be, quan he rong cung de giau. Lam viec nhieu, hieu qua nhieu cung de giau. Nguyen ly cua giau truoc het la nhieu. 9. Kiem tien hay lam giau khong phai la kho'. Co co hoi o khap moi noi. O dau co con nguoi la o do co thi truong, co cua cai va co co hoi. Di nhien co nhung thi truong giau tiem nang va thi truong kem tiem nang hon, can nhan biet o dau co the co thi truong tiem nang. Tim kiem nguoi yeu khong bao gio la kho'. O dau cung co nhung nguoi can tinh cam, con nguoi ai cung muon co tinh yeu. Cung nhu vay lam kinh te la dua ra mot loi moi loi nhuan cho cac ben doi tac, ai cung muon co loi nhuan, ai cung can tien. Nguoi giau la nguoi biet tim ra nhung thu co gia tri nhung lai bi dinh gia' thap hon gia tri thuc va dem trao doi voi nhung nguoi can gia tri do va uoc luong cao hon gia tri cua no'. Trong tinh cam thi co nhung nguoi o vao nhung hoan canh ma rat de tiep can va thanh cong, cai day trong kinh doanh goi la bi dinh gia thap hon gia tri thuc. Nhu vay mot trong nhung pham chat chinh cua quan ly, kinh doanh gioi la tim ra nhung gia tri co dinh gia thap va dem trao doi o nhung noi dinh gia cao hon. Dieu nay doi hoi phai co moi quan he rong rai, di day do nhieu, mo rong thi truong, tham gia thi truong quoc te. Cai nay la cach tiep can thong thuong, ai cung co the lam duoc, khong doi hoi nhung pham chat vuot troi, xac suat thanh cong cao. Giong nhu trong tinh cam, can nhung pham chat: ton trong doi tac, mang den nhung loi ich, chan thanh, quan tam, chia se, kien tri day la nhung cai ai cung co the lam duoc. Ngoai ra, co nhung nguoi co nhung gia tri dac biet nao do vi du hinh the dep, khuon mat quan hut, co nang khieu gi do vuot troi, nhung nguoi nay thuong khong can phai di tim doi tac ma tu thu hut nguoi khac den voi minh. Cai nay trong kinh doanh giong nhu ban co mot san pham innovation, co mot vai dac diem vuot troi hiem co tren thi truong va co gia tri canh tranh cao, cai nay thi moi nguoi deu muon dung, khong can mat cong di tim nguoi tieu dung v.v... Trong kinh doanh ban phai luon hoan thien san pham va chat luong va luon co the dat den mot muc do nao do hap dan nguoi su dung. Giong nhu mot nguoi luon co the ren luyen co the, voc dang va ban than den mot muc do nao do ma nguoi khac cam thay hap dan. Tham chi co the do tien vao de thay doi ngoai hinh, doi khi nhung su dau tu nhu vay cung la dau tu co hieu qua.  Vay tai sao da so moi nguoi thuong khong giau co' ? Da so moi nguoi di lam cong an luong, giao nhiem vu gi thi lam viec do'. Neu nhu doi chieu sang linh vuc tinh cam thi no giong nhu mot nguoi binh thuong cha co gi hap dan nhung lai ngoi mot cho doi nguoi khac den cua cam minh. Dieu do ro rang la khong the xay ra. Nguoi chac chan se co su chu dong ve tai chinh cung giong nhu nguoi chu dong ve tinh cam la biet di tim kiem co hoi, lao vao va don nhan co hoi. 10. Lam sao de lien tuc tien bo? Dieu quan trong de khong bi tut hau va giu duoc level cao la phai lien tuc tien bo, lien tuc vuot qua chinh minh. Co nhung thu ban phai thuc hien hang ngay de tro nen tien bo hon. Nhu viec tap the hinh ban phai luyen tap hang ngay thi co the moi tro nen manh khoe va cuong trang hon. Y' chi' va tinh than cung vay, ban cung phai co nhung bai tap va cung cap dinh duong cho no hang ngay de no tro nen vung chac va manh me hon. Xem video ve y' chi va thanh cong vao moi sang, doc sach ve su ren luyen va nhung tam guong moi toi truoc khi di ngu, do la nhung nguon dinh duong cho y chi va tinh than cua ban. Va ban phai thuc hanh cong viec de ren luyen cho y chi cua minh. 11. Thoi quen. Nguoi ta noi thoi quen lam nen tinh cach, tinh cach lam nen cuoc doi. Thoi quen se anh huong rat lon den cuoc song cua con nguoi. Mot trong nhung buoc dau tien de tro nen thanh dat la co thoi quen va cach song nhu nguoi thanh dat. Tu nhung thay doi nhu day som truoc 6h, bat dau cong viec som, ren luyen than the, lap ke hoach lam viec, dat ra muc tieu va ke hoach dat den muc tieu, doc sach mo mang kien thuc, biet hoc hoi, mo rong quan he, co khat vong va lam nhung dieu do deu dan hang ngay thi ngay lap tuc se thay cuoc song thay doi. Dieu nay se co hieu qua ngay lap tuc. Vi the khong the coi thuong thoi quen va ne nep sinh hoat. Muon lam mot viec de ma dat duoc hieu qua ngay thi nen bat dau ngay bang viec ap dung mot he thong thoi quen moi. 12. Nhu lai than chuong Cuoc song co rat nhieu luc moi dieu khong nhu y muon. Nhieu luc phan ung cua nguoi khac ko nhu mong doi. Lam sao de luon dung vung voi moi tinh huong. Khong bao gio chan nan va luon giu vung duoc duong di, dinh huong cua minh?Trong moi tinh huong luon dat ra 2 phuong an. Khi nguoi ta thi nghiem mot cai gi do thi thuong it khi lam duoc ngay nhu dungy tuong ban dau cua minh. Nhung moi lan thu se rut ra duoc kinh nghiem de lam no gan giong voi cai minh mong doi hon. Vi vaydu thu lan dau khong duoc thi nguoi ta van khong coi no la mot that bai ma chi coi no nhu mot dinh huong de dieu chinh phuongphap tiep can cho phu hop hon voi thuc te. Nhu vay, phai biet chap nhan ket qua cua phep thu la mot thuc te (fact). No khongtot, khong xau, khong nen khien ta kho chiu, no chi la thuc te, mot phan ung lai doi voi tiep can cua minh de giup minh dieuchinh phuong phap. Thuc te la can thiet va quan trong de giup tiep can bien y tuong thanh hien thuc.Hai, (2), cam xuc la mot dang dao dong. Khi mot dao dong yeu, hoac khong dao dong, gap mot dao dong khac thi de bi anh huongboi dao dong do, truoc tien la gay nhieu loan, tham chi co the gay dao dong tuong ung. Mot nguoi khong co dinh huong ro ranghoac dinh huong yeu ot, thi de bi roi loan cam xuc khi gap nhung cam xuc khac, trong do co nhung cam xuc tieu cuc. Tham chi, co the bi lam vao cam xuc tieu cuc tuong tu. Nhung doi voi mot dao dong manh me, no kho' bi anh huong boi dao dong khac, thamchi no co the lam nhung dao dong xung quanh bi dao dong theo no'. Giong nhu khi ta dang rat vui, thang hoa (sau cam giac chienthang, v.v...) ta rat de lam nguoi khac vui lay hoac khong chap nhat nhung chuyen khong vua y xung quanh. It co cai gi co theanh huong duoc cam xuc cua minh.Ba (3), the gioi la mot tap hop nhung kha nang xay ra voi nhung xac suat nao do. Cac the gioi cua cac xac suat ton tai song song dong thoi voi nhau. Tuy vao dau oc, cam xuc cua minh ma se lam xac suat ton tai cua minh o the gioi nao la cao hon. Va dieu nay luon bien doi voi su bien doi cua dau oc, suy nghi, cam xuc. Nhu vay co the noi truc quan cua moi nguoi dua ho dennhung the gioi khac nhau. (Doan nay kho', de nghien cuu roi viet tiep !) 13. Cac dac diem cua nguoi giau, thanh cong: - Discipline, consistence. Ki luat va tu giac. Lam mot viec lap di lap lai hang ngay. Regularly. - Kha nang lam viec khi cam thay buon chan va te nhat. Con nguoi thuong chi lam viec khi co cam hung hay thay thu vi. Nhung nhieu khi cong viec rat te nhat va buon chan. Kha nang lam viec ngay ca luc dang buon chan la kha nang quan trong. (Hay quen di viec lam viec ban yeu thich va tim cach yeu thich cong viec ban lam. Hay hoc cach lam viec ngay ca luc khong yeu thich va chan nan.) - Trong cac loai tai nguyen thi tai nguyen quan trong nhat la con nguoi. Dich vu nao thu hut duoc nhieu nguoi la dich vu co gia tri. San pham nao phuc vu tot con nguoi la san pham chat luong. Kinh doanh nao dua tren chinh nhung gia tri tot nhat cua con nguoi la kinh doanh nhieu loi nhuan.  http://giaitri.vnexpress.net/tin-tuc/gioi-sao/trong-nuoc/ong-bau-cua-ngoc-trinh-lam-giam-khao-miss-world-korea-3314528.html Tai nguyen khoang san lam nguoi ta giau len rat giau nhung tai nguyen san co o khap noi la tai nguyen con nguoi. Nam duoc con nguoi la nam duoc tat ca. Ki nang ve con nguoi la ki nang quan trong nhat. - Doc it nhat 5 quyen sach/thang; 60 quyen sach 1 nam. Trung binh nguoi Do Thai doc 64 quyen sach/nam. Khai mo tri thuc, nhan thuc va tri tue. Moi van de trong cuoc song con nguoi la do thieu hieu biet. 14. Su dung va phan bo thoi gian hieu qua cung la mot ki nang rat quan trong. Trong thoi dai cong nghe so thi thoi gian rat de bi troi di mot cach thu dong va mat kiem soat dan den mat can bang ve phan bo thoi gian va kem hieu qua trong phat trien cong viec. Phan bo thoi gian trong khong gian cuoc song cung nhu cach phan bo sap xep do dac trong nha cua. Co gon gang thi cuoc song moi de kiem soat va de chiu. Khong gian danh cho cai gi nhieu cai gi it lai phu thuoc vao tung muc dich, hoan canh, su kien, giai doan. Thoi gian cung vay. Can can nhac su dung hop ly va hieu qua. 15. Nhan cu vi bat thien. Khi nao lam nhung viec ko nen lam, nghi nhung thu ko nen nghi hay tieu hao nang luong vao nhung thu ko dang thi do la do dang bi nhan roi qua'. Hay dat minh vao nhung yeu cau va doi hoi cao hon, lo lang va co trach nhiem cao hon. 16. Nhanh va de thi co tot ? Con nguoi co dac tinh tu nhien la luon thich chon viec nao de thi lam truoc. Nhung chua chac viec de dang thi lai la lua chon tot. Vi du khi ai do lam sai hoac trai y minh thi viec de dang nhat la che trach ho. Che bai la viec de nhat va ai cung lam duoc. Nhung hieu lam sao ho lai lam nhu vay moi la viec kho', va co hieu duoc cai do moi hieu duoc va giai quyet duoc van de. Hoac khi that bai hoac ko lam duoc cai gi thi viec de nhat la do thua cho nguoi khac. Vi the nguoi ta rat thich do loi cho nguoi khac va cha ai thich nhan loi ve minh ca. Nhung phai luon nhan lay trach nhiem cho ban than thi moi chu dong va giai quyet duoc van de. Neu phu thuoc vao nguoi khac thi khong bao gio lam chu duoc tinh huong. Khi khong biet lam mot cai gi, hoac loay hoay chua biet bat dau ra sao thi viec de nhat la di nho hoac di hoi. Nen nguoi ta cu dong chuyen gi la san sang di hoi, tham chi nhung cai rat don gian chi can dong nao hay tim kiem mot chut cung ko chiu bo suc ma chi thich hoi cho nhanh. Nhung nhu the dan co thoi quen i lai va dan dan phu thuoc vao nguoi khac, ko tu xoay so duoc. Su lua chon se it di va co hoi se bi bo' hep. 17. Nhung dieu khong nhu y muon Co nhung khi trong cuoc song co nhung su viec xay ra khong du doan duoc va khong duoc nhu y muon. Do la su that tat yeu luon xay ra voi tat ca moi nguoi. No co the do ngau nhien, do nhan qua, nghiep luc, do ta chua hieu het nguyen tac van dong cua su viec, v.v... hay do ly do gi nua thi cung khong quan trong. Hay coi no la phep thu cho su linh hoat, kha nang vuot qua thu thach, kha nang hoc hoi kinh nghiem tu thuc te de thich ung voi su viec. Phai luon doi pho voi moi thuc te va vuot qua no, khong bao gio bo cuoc. Moi kho khan chi la tam thoi va do gioi han ve nhan thuc, hieu biet. 18. Tot va xau la nhung tu co tinh chat don cuc vi no dung doi voi mot phia chu the nao do va co the khong dung voi chu the khac. Day la nhung tu kho' su dung, can su dung mot cach de chung va than trong nhung lai la nhung nhom tu de bi lam dung va su dung sai nhieu nhat. Nen hieu ro moi viec xay ra deu co ly do cua no va thuan theo cac quy luat tu nhien, quy luat xa hoi. Nen hieu va nhin van de mot cach bao dung ca viec lam cua nguoi khac, va ca bao dung voi minh, thay nhung cach cu xu do, nhung dieu xay ra nhu vay, au cung thuan theo le thuong tinh. Muon su viec xay ra khac di va thuan theo Y' Minh`, nghia la minh tro thanh chu the cua su viec, thi minh se phai co trach nhiem nhieu hon va tiep can van de mot cach tich cuc hon. Minh can dat minh vao toan bo con nguoi, su viec trong do de hieu va dong dieu voi ho, tu do cam nhan duoc cach su viec se xay ra tuy theo hoan canh tinh huong nhu the nao ma tu do biet cach sap dat moi viec de no dien ra nhu y minh. Khi tuong tuong nhu vay luon phai lay rung dong yeu thuong va cao thuong la rung dong cao nhat, trong do su cao thuong se luon la thu duoc de cao va tao ra anh huong tich cuc. Nhu vay quan trong nhat va co ban de giai quyet cac buc xuc, khuc mac, be tac la thay doi cach tiep can van de, tinh tao va toan tam suy nghi ve no mot cach thau dao.  19. Hanh phuc la nhung hai long ve qua khu, ki vong ve tuong lai va cam giac yeu thuong, duoc yeu thuong, ton trong, va cam giac "co' ", "so huu". Hanh phuc la van de cua cam giac va tam ly', tuc la nguoi ta co the van cam thay hanh phuc ngay trong dieu kien toi tan ve vat chat. Nhu vay hanh phuc ko phai la thu dat tien, ko can phai ton rat nhieu tien moi co the mang lai duoc hanh phuc. Nguoi ta co the hoc cach de hanh phuc trong dieu kien hien tai va huong toi cach de thoa man nhung mong muon khac trong tuong lai. Sau do la lam cho nhung nguoi lquan den minh cam thay hp -> Hanh phuc la van de ca nhan, nguoi ta co the cam thay hp vi nhung dieu nguoi khac lam hoac tao ra cho minh, nhung suy cho cung no lai den tu viec minh nhu the nao. Hanh phuc nen la van de chu dong ko nen tiep nhan bi dong vi` the ko the dam bao minh hp neu chi dua vao nhung dieu nguoi khac tao ra (ko in control cua ban than) va cung k the chac rang dieu minh lam la du de lam mot nguoi thay hp. Chi co the chac rang trong gioi han hanh dong cua minh mang tinh chat giup nguoi khac hp.  De tu cam thay hp: nho ve nhung dieu trong qua khu da lam cho ban cam thay vui va cam nhan duoc tinh cam, respectful tu nguoi khac. Nghi ve nhung dieu tot dep, nhung thoi diem tot dep nhat trong qua khu. Song lai khoang khac va thoi gian do, va nho di nho lai nhung dieu do. Tre em thuong cam thay hanh phuc vi chung tap trung nhieu hon ve nhung dieu tot dep va quen nhanh hon nhung that bai. Du ca 2 dieu deu luon ton tai trong thuc te. Va tuong tuong nhung dieu tot dep se xay ra trong tuong lai. Cho di nhieu, quan tam va ton trong moi nguoi bang nhung tinh cam tan tam nhat. 20. Startup cung co diem tuong dong nhu moi quan he trong hon nhan. Nguoi ta thuong noi hon nhan thuong neu tan vo se tan vo trong 5 nam dau tien. Neu tru duoc sau 5 nam thi thuong khi do nguoi ta se hieu va song duoc voi nhau. Startup cung vay, nhung kho' khan va thu thach nhieu nhat trong 5 nam dau, vi vay day ko phai giai doan de nong voi va mo mong ve nhung thanh cong nhanh chong. Viec phai lam la phai kien tri va tiep tuc gay dung, xay dung  startup cua ban tot hon va hoan thien hon.  Rat hiem co viec "sinh ra de cho nhau" trong tinh yeu, ngay ca con cai sinh ra cho bo me ma con co luc ko hop y, bat dong va kho' chiu. Nguoi ta phai hoc cach song voi nhau, nhuong nhin nhau. Khong phai la nguoi nao se chiem phan thang hay nguoi nao se luon dung ma se chi co su thong hieu, sua doi tu hai phia, co va cham va lam moi thu tot hon tu do'. Cung ko co y tuong startup nao sinh ra la hoan thien ngay ma phai lay feedback tu users va lien tuc cai thien va hoan tien, tham chi thay doi de phu hop hon. Ban phai co tinh than lam va dan buoc ma khong trong doi phai duoc tuong thuong the nao. Lam vi su say me va cong hien. Nhu trong tinh yeu la cho di ma khong trong doi phai nhan lai gi. Cam thay lam het tam huyet va het suc de du ket qua the nao cung se ko co gi phai nuoi tiec. Chi khi nao dan than bang tinh than nhu vay thi du ket qua the nao cung ko cam thay that bai. Chi co voi tinh than nhu vay thi moi ko bao gio that bai. 21. Dat trong nhung dieu kien it han dinh thi "that bai" la thai do ve su viec chu khong phai ban than su viec. Neu mot viec dien ra khong nhu mong muon va muc dich ban dau va thai do cua ban la buc tuc, do loi cho nguoi khac, han thu v.v... thi do' la that bai. Nguoc lai, neu su viec cho ban rut ra nhieu bai hoc va co nhieu hieu biet sau sac hon de de tien toi hon muc dich trong nhung lan lap lai cong viec tuong tu thi do lai la mot gat hai, mot thanh cong. Khi bi han dinh boi nhung gioi han ro rang hon, vi du: phai vo dich trong giai dau nam nay, phai thanh cong trong viec phong tau vu tru lan nay... thi de tranh that bai doi hoi su chuan bi rat chu dao ki cang, luong truoc va co gang tranh tat ca cac truong hop co the nghi ra ma co the ngan can dieu do xay ra. Trong thuc tai luon ton tai nhung yeu to bat dinh va yeu to nam ngoai su kiem soat. Nhung cai nam ngoai kha nang kiem soat khong duoc dua vao trong phuong trinh danh gia thanh cong, that bai. Nhu vay co the thay, trong bien do rong, su viec co the la thanh cong hay that bai tuy theo su bien thien cua thai do doi voi su viec. Khi gioi han trong bien do hep hon, ket qua thuc te cua hanh dong co gia tri xac dinh hon va su chuan bi cung nhu y thuc phai ro rang, it bat dinh hon. 22. "Da.o" khong chi co nghia la "con duong". Tu "dao" hieu day du nhat giong tu "dao" trong "tra dao", "vo dao", "kiem dao", v.v... " Hiển nhiên ở đây trà đạo, không đơn thuần là con đường, phép tắc uống trà, mà trên hết là một phương tiện hữu hiệu nhằm làm trong sạch tâm hồn bằng cách hòa mình với thiên nhiên, từ đó tu tâm dưỡng tính và nhập định thiền để đạt giác ngộ." (http://trathuanviet.com/tim-hieu-ve-tra-dao-nhat-ban/) Nguoi di hoc vo khong chi hoc danh dam nguoi khac, ma quan trong la phai hoc duoc "vo dao", hoc duoc cai tinh than cua vo thuat, do la su ren luyen co the, suc luc, la chien thang ban va lam chu ban than, ep co the phai vuot qua nhung gioi han chiu dung moi, bat no phai lam viec theo y chi cua con nguoi. Lam chu duoc co the cua minh va lam chu duoc suc manh cua minh, chien thang duoc su so hai trong ban than minh. Chien thang duoc su luoi nhac cua co the. Co le do la mot phan cua vo dao. Chinh vi the trong cac mon phai vo, su to phai tim duoc nguoi xung dang moi truyen lai cho tat ca bi kip chan truyen cua mon phai. Phai la nguoi tham nhuan va hieu duoc, co duoc tinh than vo dao thi moi duoc truyen thu va co the truyen thu, xung dang de ke thua. Khi choi the thao cung vay. Co nhung nguoi co ki nang tot nhung cu xu va suy nghi lai chua co su phat trien tuong xung. Ay la chua ngo ra duoc cai "dao" khi choi mon the thao ay. Phai vua choi vua ngam nghi, vua quan chieu lai trong ban than minh. Suy ngam va chiu trach nhiem, lay minh la trung tam chiu trach nhiem cho nhung hanh dong va ket qua xay ra xung quanh minh. Lam chu cam xuc cua ban than minh va nghi den su tong hoa thong cam, thau hieu cho hanh dong cua nguoi khac, co nhu vay moi dan ngo ra duoc cai dao. 23. Thoughts shape the world and emotions move the world. Thoughts with emotions create reality. Can xem cac cau chuyen chua dung nhieu cam xuc nhu chuyen thanh cong, nhung cam xuc khac co the thoi thuc su suy nghi thau dao va bat tay vao lam viec. Xem cac cau chuyen ve nhung chu de dang quan tam nhu : gia dinh, cong viec, suc khoe, v.v... Doc cang nhieu cang tot, lam nguyen lieu cho suy nghi va cam xuc. Doc khi ranh roi ko co y tuong gi va phai ngoi doc nhung thong tin nham nhi, thu dong. 24. Con nguoi la dong vat cam xuc, trang thai tinh than anh huong nhieu den performance cua con nguoi. Trong cac loai trang thai tinh than thi trang thai "say" co le la mot trong nhung trang thai giup con nguoi lam viec kha hieu qua. Vi the ta se phan tich mot chut trang thai say: - Khi o muc do say khong qua muc, tinh than va dau oc con nguoi o trang thai hung phan cao. Hanh dong co muc do tap trung cao va phan tan tu tuong thap. Vi the con nguoi thuong it dan do do bi cac suy nghi khac tac dong den. Con nguoi cung it bi phan tan boi cac giac quan khac tren co the. Kha nang thu nhan va xu ly bi thu hep, vi the nguoi ta thuong nghi gi lam nay va lam mot cach kha tap trung, lien mach. Cac tin hieu khac cua co the cung tac dong yeu hon den quyet dinh xu ly tinh huong cua con nguoi, do do muon lam gi nguoi ta se tien hanh lam ngay ma ko thay dan do do co the met moi hay ue oai. Day gan nhu la nhung pham chat ly tuong de thuc hien cac hanh dong mot cach hieu qua. Neu mo phong va dat duoc co the vao trang thai "hung phan-say" ma van con kha nang kiem soat hanh vi thi co le la kha' tot. Say co nhieu dang. Khong chi la say ruou. Nguoi ta co the say nhac, say do an, say vi mot niem vui hanh phuc cao do nao do, v.v.... Doi khi viec de hung phan lan at bot cac suy nghi thu yeu, block bot cac tin hieu gay phan tan' lai la dieu tot. 25. Well prepared va khong doi hoi Do co the la cach de nguoi ta enjoy duoc toi da mot viec gi do. Thong thuong trong cuoc song nguoi ta hay mac sai lam va lam nhung viec nguoc lai: chuan bi so sai va thuong xuyen doi hoi. Da so moi nguoi di lam cong viec cua minh nhu mot nghia vu va khong suy nghi nhieu xem minh se lam gi, lam nhu the nao. Ve tam ly khong co su chuan bi truoc. Ve tri tuong tuong, ko co chuan bi truoc. Ve trang thiet bi, tai nguyen, khong co su chuan bi truoc. Nhung khi lam ho lai thuong co doi hoi rat cao: doi hoi mot ket qua nhu y ngay tu dau, day la sai lam can ban nhat, vi khong co viec gi moi lam ma duoc nhu y muon ngay tu lan dau, hoac thanh cong ngay tu dau. Khong nhung doi hoi tu ket qua ma ngoai ra nguoi ta con doi hoi tu nguoi khac. Do loi cho nguoi khac, binh pham, nhan xet ve su yeu kem cua ho cung la mot dang cua doi hoi tu nguoi khac. Tat ca nhung sai lam noi tren la nguyen nhan chinh cho viec ko cam thay hai long khi lam mot viec gi do. Cam thay kem vui, kem hanh phuc. Cam thay kho khan, chun buoc v.v.... Khi di da bong duong pho, ma ngon ngu thong thuong goi la da phui, day la mot cuoc choi chung va moi nguoi deu co phan cua minh. Va moi nguoi tham gia mot cach tu nhien ma nhieu khi ban khong co quyen lua chon tai nguyen cua minh, nguoc lai, ban phai song voi nhung tai nguyen ay, phai biet chap nhan thuc te minh co va tim cach song tot nhat voi no'. Mot tran dau nhu mot van co, khi khong co nhieu nhan luc tot hoac doi phuong manh hon ban phai biet chon the tran phong thu, doi chop thoi co phan cong de ghi ban chop nhoang va doi nhung tai nguyen bo sung tu dau den vao mot thoi diem nao do ban ko the biet truoc duoc. Ban cung phai biet chon cho minh nhung vi tri thich hop trong doi hinh ma ban choi va the tran ma no dang co'. Viec di chuyen tren san nhu di chuyen tren mot ban co, ban phai chon cho minh vi tri tot nhat cho nhung nuoc di tiep theo. Va quan trong nhat la ban phai luon tap trung va chiu trach nhiem cho ban than minh, tren san hay tap trung vao dieu do, lam that tot phan viec cua minh, luon tap trung, nhin lai minh, rut kinh nghiem, nghi xem co the lam duoc gi tot hon va khong trong doi, hoac trach cu nguoi khac. Nhu vay ban luon co the enjoy mot tran dau va moi nguoi se deu cam thay hanh phuc. Chuyen nay con dung trong cac moi quan he. Ban tuong tuong rat nhieu ve mot moi quan he tuyet voi. Su tuong tuong do dua tren nhung gi ban nghi la nguoi khac se cam nhan duoc tu hanh dong cua ban, dua tren nhung gi ma ban nhin thay minh qua su phan chieu cua nguoi khac. Va mot moi quan he tuong tuong tot dep se thuong dua tren su thich thu, hanh phuc ma doi tuong se nhan duoc tu ban. Do la mot quan he ko vu loi, ko doi hoi, cho di ma ko tinh toan se phai nhan duoc gi. Va khi buoc vao thuc te ban se song bang cam xuc do, nhung dieu da duoc chuan bi truoc trong dau oc va ban enjoy tung giay phut, khong phai huong den mot ket qua nhat dinh nao do cho minh. Song nhu nguoi ta noi la "enjoy the journey, not the destination". Trong bat ki cong viec nao khac cung nen nhu vay, co mot su chuan bi tot truoc ve mat tam ly, suy nghi. Va lam tap trung het suc vao ban than minh, ko phai ket qua, ko doi hoi mot ket qua hoan mi, va huong thu nhung trai nghiem. Nhung trai nghiem se giup minh hieu biet hon, do la niem vui. Do la cach de moi viec dien ra that tot. Truoc day toi da nghi tai sao di da bong phui minh la mot nguoi "dac biet", kha noi tieng, ai cung biet den va muon co minh trong doi, mot dang "ngoi sao" luon thi dau toa sang va duoc ghi nhan; trong khi do ra thi dau 11 nguoi thi ko the hien duoc dieu do, khong lam chu duoc tran dau nhu cach minh van lam trong khi da phui ? Va mot ngay minh nhan ra khi da phui, (minh van luon ngam nghi ngay ca khi dang da bong), rang do la cach minh tiep can tran dau. Khi da phui va khi da 11 minh tiep can rat khac nhau. Khi da phui minh tap trung het suc vao cong viec cua minh va chi quan tam den lam tot dieu do. Tham lang da va cong hien, co gang improve sau tung pha bong, chi vay thoi. Con khi ra san 11 minh de dau oc nghi ve nhieu thu khac hon, ko con su tap trung cho chinh ban than minh nua, khong tu hoi lam gi de co the cai thien tot hon, nguoc lai thuong hy vong va doi hoi tu nguoi khac nhieu. Minh da nghi cac doi minh da da ko phai doi hinh ly tuong minh thuong mong muon, khong phu hop voi kha nang va loi da cua minh. Va minh luon nghi ko biet khi nao minh moi tim duoc mot doi nhu the, co le phai bat tay vao thanh lap mot doi bong nhu vay. Nhung khi minh nhan ra khac biet tren, thi minh nghi truoc het phai tu dieu chinh ban than, do la viec co the thuc hien duoc ngay. Va tu khi minh ap dung thi den nay doi van lien tuc thang. Thang mot mach 5 tran lien tiep. Du hoan canh khong co gi moi, van nhung con nguoi va doi thu nhu vay. Moi nguoi van tham gia it va di muon. Van co nhung nguoi da khong hop ly trong mot vai tinh huong. Van co nhung ban thua vi nhung loi rat vo van va tuc tuoi. Van co khi bi dan truoc ... Chi khac la tam ly cua minh hoan toan binh than voi nhung viec do va nghi rang minh chi can tap trung lam tot phan viec cua minh va lam sao de lam tot hon nua sau moi tinh huong. Va ket qua la doi luon thang nhung tran dau do, du it nguoi, du bi dan truoc va bay gio thi ai cung dang cam thay rat hanh phuc. Du chuyen nay co the thay doi trong tuong lai, cha ai co the bat kha chien bai mai duoc, nhung no cung la viec het suc binh thuong. Giong nhu da phui, 2 doi se ghi ban qua lai lan nhau. Viec bi thung luoi khong phai la mot tham hoa. Ban se luon dung len, rut ra bai hoc va co gang lam tot hon o lan tiep theo. Neu ban cu thang mai ma doi ban khong the ghi ban thi day se la mot tran dau rat nham chan'. Rot cuoc, viec co gang het suc, va thay minh tien bo, hoc hoi moi la thu lam cho ban cam thay hai long. 26. bo nao con ng moi dug 1 phan nho ma da du nhu cau giao tiep va chuc nang xa hoi. Phan rat lon chua dc su dungbla nhung chac nang "vo how nh" hon nhu tuong tuong, lien ket va hap dan vu tru, tao ra thuc te moi v.v...Ng me lo cho con bang nhung suy nghi va truc giac mang tinh rat ban nang, ng bo thi ve suy tinh va logicNhung bieu hien bat thuong la bao hieu cho nhung thay doi moi do van vat trong vu tru co tinh lien ket voi nhauSuy nghi nhieu ve su vat va hien tuong de hieu ra nhieu y nghia hay hoSang kien: quat 360 doQuat nhin va nghe duocQuat ap dung data mininh va deap learning khi trackinh heat mapPatent, PI, fund, supervise, colaborationApp lucky number, lottery,..Tinh thuong xuat phat tu su ton trong ca nhan ban theCai gi qua cung k totTruong thanh la biet lo cho ng khac 27, Cac kham pha va suy luan cua Nghe sau do tim thay thong tin xac thuc hoac tuong dong: (1) Tra loi cau hoi, vi sao anh sang la toc do nhanh nhat va la gioi han toc do cua vu tru? -> Nghe cho rang: vi ban chat moi thu deu la anh sang.(2) Tra loi cau hoi, vi sao y nghi va mong muon co the tac dong toi tuong lai va vi sao co nguoi co the du doan duoc tuong lai dung voi mot muc do nao do? -> Nghe cho rang: vi moi kha nang deu dang xay ra va ton tai, tuy vao mong muon cua minh ma minh se co sac xuat cao nhat song trong thuc tai trung vai tan so va mong muon ay. Tuy vao viec minh dang co tan so nao va dieu chinh sang tan so, cam xuc nao ma minh se trai nghiem thuc tai tuong ung voi cam xuc va tan so ay. Nhu vay neu khong co nhung thay doi va bien dong thi mot nguoi co giac quan hoac suy luan, hieu biet tot hoan toan co the du doan hoac nhin thay mot thuc tai nao do khop voi huong di ma minh se huong toi.(3) Tra loi cau hoi, vi sao moi nguoi lai huong den dieu thien, tranh dieu ac? vi sao quy luat cua vu tru va xa hoi lai favour dieu thien, dieu tot? The nao la thien, tot... the nao la ko tot... Vi sao ban chat cua vu tru la anh sang, vi sao ban chat cua anh sang la tinh yeu, vay tinh yeu thuc su la gi ? -> Nghe tra loi : vi ban chat cua vu tru la nhip dieu va su hai hoa, su tuan hoan... giong nhu am nhac la su lap lai va pha tron cua nhung nhip dieu, anh sang la su lap lai cua nhung dai tan so... con nguoi khi lam nhung dieu tot hay khi tinh than cam thay thoai mai thi nhip tim va hoi tho co xung nhip deu. Nguoc lai khi tuc gian, lo lang, stress, benh tat thi xung nhip roi loan, khong tuan hoan. Vay ban chat cua tinh yeu la su hai hoa, dong dieu va nhip nhang. Neu nhin vao moi viec, thay duoc su hai hoa, thay duoc niem vui va giu duoc su thanh thoi, dong dieu trong tam than ay la cam nhan va co duoc tinh yeu. (4) Thoi gian la gi? -> Nghe cho rang: thoi gian la thuoc do cua su chuyen dong, su thay doi. Neu ko co su thay doi va chuyen dong thi ko co khai niem thoi gian. (5) ban chat cua khong gian va luc hap dan la gi ?  28.    what make you success - work very hard, the most hardworking player on the field. - play smart, can see situations and be prepared in advance - very determined and see the goal very clear - pre-determined the emotion and situation - pre-determined every steps - high-minded - sensitive care and reactions - immediate connect, concentrate, high densitiy connections, high conversion rate to next steps - be different Everything is about people. It is people that is the power source that make you different  29. Should not abuse power. Faster is not always better. 30. "Early life every body thinks he is the best. It's not wrong. Later he recognizes that others are also good. It's also not wrong. The only wrong thing is people start to blame themselves or others. The right thing is everyone is born the best way to the course of life. They have the best quality for coping with the situations in life that gives the best results for them." 31. Ai cung co mat tot va mat xau. Neu chi thay mat xau o mot nguoi thi hay vui vi con nhung mat tot minh se duoc biet.Mat tot la de cam nhan ( cam xuc, yeu)Mat xau la de ta suy nghi. Luc do cai dau can nghi giai phap nao de khac phuc no, phu hop va su dung no.32. Principle to be satisfaction: set goal high, expectation low.33. Everybody see a part of the truth.we see what we want to see.34. Pass - Qua khuQua khu chi la mot phan cua nhung kha nang co the xay ra ma minh da duoc trai nghiem. Qua khu la hien nhien bat ky ai cung co va no la thu ma minh da vuot qua. Dieu duy nhat va dieu luon co the thay doi ve qua khu la cam xuc cam nhan ve no. Phai biet co thai do dung: hoi loi, phuc thien, biet on ve no va moi qua khu deu tro len tot dep.35. Bad - Nhuoc diemDanh gia mang tinh chu quan. Danh gia thuong bi rang buoc vao chu quan bao gom ngon tu va cam xuc. Khi gan cho mot su vat hien tuong mot su danh gia no se bi gan cho mot cai mac ngon tu va cam xuc (tich cuc hay tieu cuc) gan voi ngon tu do. Vi vay no bi gioi han trong pham vi do. Nhung thuc te lai la khong co bien gioi va bien doi khong ngung. Vi vay nguoi ta hay mac sai lam gan mac va tu gioi han minh trong nhung cai mac ma nguoi ta cam nhan.Bat ky con nguoi nao cung gom tot va xau, khi dung khi sai. Bat ky ai cung vay ko co ngoai le. Vi the xau cung co vai tro va binh thuong nhu tot. Nhung sai lam co y nghia rat tich cuc khi nguoi ta nhin ra no va hoc hoi tu no.  Nhung nguoi ta thuong co cam giac vui khi duoc nghe tot ve minh va cam thay ko binh thuong khi nghe xau. Thuc ra phai cam thay do la nhung dieu het suc hien nhien va cam nhan no bang tinh yeu tich cuc. Hinh anh ban than minh co nhuoc diem cung dang yeu va dang thuong nhu bat ky nguoi nao khac. Mot nguoi nhan xet minh nhuoc diem bang mot cam xuc tot muon minh tien bo thi rat dang tran trong va cam kich. Mot nguoi che bai bang cam xuc tieu cuc thi ho cung dang thuong vi ho ko biet cach tiep nhan nhuoc diem tu mot goc nhin cam xuc tich cuc. 36. Tuong laiLa cuoc song cua tri tuong tuong va cam xuc tot dep ve dieu co the xay ra. 37. Hien taila duy tri nhip tho, cam xuc va cam nhan ve moi dieu tot dep dang dien ra theo dung cach no dang dien ra nhu mot phan cua su that. 38. Noi ham cua su vat su viec lon hon cai vo boc cua no.Giong nhu ngon tu la su gioi han cua mieu ta mot su vat su viec. Y nghia an chua trong mot tran dau cung co the vuot qua tam cua mot game don thuan. Nhung thu chua dung trong mot vo boc ma ta co the nhin thay thuc su lon hon rat nhieu nhung thu ta nhin thay. 39. Attitude la thu rat quan trong. Thai do trong cuoc song hoac thai do truoc cac su vat su viec quyet dinh hanh phuc va cuoc doi con nguoi.40. Nhung kinh nghiem va cam xuc cua chinh ban thi ban nghi la ko thay doi vi ban than ban co tri nho ve no va ban it cam nhan duoc su thay doi cua minh, nhung khi ban thu lap lai kinh nghiem do voi nguoi do thi ban thay no co the ko nhu xua nua. Boi vi thuc ra su vat va hien tuong luon bien doi khong ngung. Vi the kinh nghiem do co the ko con dung nua.VI the nhung kinh nghiem xau khong co gi dang so. Ban co the thu lai viec lam do nhung chua chac da that bai vi su vat va hien tuong da thay doi roi.41. De tao ra mot su bien doi thuc su hay mot su thang hoa thuc su, do la su ket hop cua cam xuc lien tuc cao do, ket hop tri tuong tuong, hinh anh, am thanh, va hanh dong lien tuc trong mot thoi gian ko bi gian doan. Vi the, tot hon la hay tap trung het suc, lien tuc, toan bo cam xuc va tri tuong tuong vao mot project trong mot quang thoi gian ngan thi van hon la lam nhieu cai ngat quang trong mot thoi gian dai.42. Cau tra loi cho moi khuc mac da ro, ko can phai ban khoan va di tim. Chi can lan lon vao tim no. Nhu da bong, lan la tim den nhung noi co the thuc hien. Lan xa va het minh. Co nhung phut boc dong, co nhung luc sai lam. Rut ra bai hoc va lan xa hang ngay, cang nhieu cang tot. Dan se thanh huyen thoai.43. Muc luong $400 mot cuoc hen va khong du dap ung mot cai gia re tien ay? Quen nhung thu vo van va doc sach kiem tien. Tao hinh anh dang nguong mo cho intern tre.